[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Day 15
Day 15 No Caffeine, Cacao, Sugar, black tea, Pepper
Day 15 No privacy

 

Day 0 again

 

Day 32 Today is what counts!

 

Well said.....
That's my biggest problem right now.. to start to set high standards ignoring the small steps, to start from the beginning.

 

Day 79 done

 

2 days, wish good luck to every man out here

 

hello all .. i stopped posting here from past few months .. but will start posting from today for sure .. i am facing some problems these days and want to overcome them ... all the best to u all and myself

 

Day 45/90!

 

Day 29/90

I'm doing much better today. No relapsing- so making lots of progress.

 

Day 20/90. Started to feel better yesterday. I had 3 people reach out to me to see how I was doing over text. They asked me are you doing okay? Being vulnerable is so good. I would have never had all that support yesterday if I wasn't being honest about the hurt I was feeling from rejection.

Last night I watched a movie with one of my brothers that had some nudity, it wasn't really sexualized nudity because it was traumatic to the main character but I did have a wet dream last night. Not sure if it's related or related to the fact that I took ZMA last night or related to the fact that I'm reading through this book on dating called "How to Get a Date Worth Keeping" before bed. But anyways, just checking that in.

 

Day 26 done.
Economics exam done.Almost 83.333.
Remaining : Days 64.

 

Day 13:
See this as an opertunity to change for the better. Not just in this asoect of life but in all, learn somthing, a new languge a new skill, learn to code, set time to improve your releasionships.

 

Day 46

 

45 days. No PMO, no alcohol.

 

Day 4/90 completed (GOAL DAY)

• No urges.​
• Was very active the whole day.​
• Emotionally sad because i had to leave my supposedly new job become of some tasks i cannot perform to my boss for other client because of my religion.​

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Whats special about this day
I aimed to reach day 4 because my last relapses were both in day 4 so im very pleased to reach this goal of mine and im pleased about it.( i decided to forget that i used to do frequently 7-14-21-28-31 and 51 day streaks because it only causes me to get depressed now lately that i’ve had short streaks, and this promoted relapsing) so i’m aiming low again, like i’m just starting on Nofap ​

 

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Day 42 Today! Feeling good, going to make it a productive day.Been struggling a bit recently with lustful thoughts. Good luck to all

 

Hey buddy, just want to say I know how it feels to get turned down for a date. It stings, but if you can just realize it's part of the "game", it will actually make you *stronger*. The trick is to realize there's *always* another opportunity around the corner. So if one doesn't work out (and alot of times it won't!), you just let it pass by and don't take it personally.

What happens, I found, is that over time you worry less and less about any particular interaction with a girl - and this paradoxically makes you more attractive to them since you naturally become more relaxed, more positive, more confident around them. Anyway remember you get much respect from all us dudes who know how it feels sometimes. Keep at it, bro.

 

Day 28, 29, 30 and 31 done. On an incredible houseboat holiday.

 

Day 12.