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Porn is Better than Sex !! [HELP ME] !!

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by alexandrebois, Feb 3, 2021.

  1. I respect your opinion and the way you treat your friends, Stenacity.
     
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  2. If i remember correctly, didn't you complain being lonely and feeling huge loneliness and isolation because highschool crush didnt pay attention to you or something ? How come you got married in such a short span ?

    Anyways, either way you're very well aware that these posts are getting the good amount of attention from our members - and its not the right kind of attention.

    There are many things to porn, and reality is none of them. In an essence you can tell yourself as much excuses as you want and keep watching it, eventually the reality is;

    - You're jerking off to a screen
    - No real connection
    - You're not being productive
    - Depression, anxiety etc.
    - Insecurity
    - These women have no idea who you are (they're there for money and porn industry is here to get you hooked)
    - You're watching someone else have sex, goddamn it
    - You have to deal with adverse negative effects after watching it

    And the long term effect ? You're wasting your life away, of course the list can go on but this is more than enough

    You can tell yourself all of the excuses you want to, one thing is certain, you'll just waste your life away realizing you havent accomplished anything and that you're sitting in the same, if not worse place. Porn will always be there and it'll consume you.

    Time waits for nobody, and it wont wait for you either - you can tell yourself as much excuses as you want to, but the cold blunt truth always stays the same. Hopefully you realize that on time
    Good luck
     
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  3. Stenacity

    Stenacity Fapstronaut

    Thank you!

    It's hard because you don't always agree with someone's decision, even if you care about the person. I don't think their choice to do porn was necessarily healthy. And the porn industry treats women so horribly. But that doesn't stop me from caring about my friends.

    I'm just happy most of them no longer perform and have gone onto other things... You know?
     
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  4. The fact that you care about them when they do something like that, makes me understand that you are unique in life. I know for sure that I'll never be able to accept such a thing happening but such is reality. Can't stop everyone from doing what they want for what conditions and why. And you're even nice to me when I called them trash. You deserve the upmost respect. I hope you find happiness in your life and I hope your friends will in the end see the light (not saying that they haven't but if they didn't then I hope they do.). Thanks for teaching me the way of thinking when it comes to friends.
     
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  5. Parzival8

    Parzival8 Fapstronaut

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    I think you need a hard reboot and to work at this. I still enjoy sex with my wife, but I do miss porn. I however know that I Can get over it. Maybe go read some success stories. It is hard to see now but it is possible.
     
  6. Real girls in real life are so much more attractive than pornstars plastic fakeness. Your mind is roasted by porn
     
  7. Daryn

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    idk I find the ones with plastic surgery unattractive. Some pornstars are just really hot girls who won the genetic lottery.
     
  8. Veritech

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    Porn is not better than sex!!!

    There is nothing better than feeling the warm body and breath of a loving wife. Also to get graphic...
    Her nipples getting hard, the taste of her pussy, the intensity of her blowjob, the tightness of her pussy.
    How can your cold clammy hand feel better?

    You are using porn because porn is always available at your whim. Better to get off now than to not get off... That's it!

    Porn will warp your mind, make you limp and leave you lonely and depressed.
     
  9. g2stop

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    You have to accept that you have a certain amount of brain damage from porn that has caused these delusions that making love to your hand is somehow better than making love to a woman. If you can’t see this then porn has really damaged your brain and brain washed you. Everyone in this forum knows how attractive porn can be otherwise we wouldn’t be here. We also realise it is all FALSE.
     

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