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I'm not having wet dreams

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by youraverageguy, Jan 23, 2021.

  1. youraverageguy

    youraverageguy Fapstronaut

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    Hello! As many of you may have experienced, it appears to be quite normal for one to experience more frequent wet dreams as they abstain from porn and masturbation. However, I find that I am one of the few who actually don't have any wet dreams at all. Went on half a year streak last year, and didn't experience wet dreams at all. Paranoid a bit, wondering if anyone else knows about this or experiences it also
     
  2. ShowProof

    ShowProof Fapstronaut

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    Good, me neither. I 'relapsed' in the past three years but had long strikes. haven't had a wet dream for at least 3 years now.
     
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  3. Uncle_Iroh

    Uncle_Iroh Fapstronaut

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    Wet dreams don't happen to everyone, it doesn't make you odd, it's just the way it is. I found my wet dreams came at times I was urging or had being triggered, but that is still rare. I could count how many I've had in m 6 years of recovery on one hand. Do not worry yourself, there's nothing wrong.
     
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  4. calmthestorm

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    It is good that you are not having wet dreams. A brain that is deeply addicted is going to have frequent wet dreams. Wet dreams are energy draining and exhausting to the nervous system.
     
  5. Wetdreams are a literally a worst nightmare for guys practicing semen retention. I have had 6 WDs till now in this streak and the next day is totally ruined after each WD. Wetdreams drain a lot of energy, although people may say they dont have any effects but I feel like the benefits of NoFap/SR are lost after getting WD.
    You should consider yourself lucky that you dont have to worry about nightfalls and have to change pants in middle of a night.
     
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  6. ruso

    ruso Fapstronaut

    One of the guys, who don’t experience wet dreams. I was paranoid too when I started. Don’t be paranoid, it’s different for everyone. And as others here and in other places have shared it can be a weird and unpleasant (to say the least) experience.
     
  7. same brother, even in my longest streak (77 days) I haven't even got close to one, I guess things are different for each one
     
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  8. ShowProof

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    Woooo so there are a bunch of people?!! Nice! I thought there's like 1 in a 100,000 or million who don't. I'm glad it is so. ....

    I recently messed up and put chi in the heart by mistake. This fuked me a little and deviated a lot of chi. I had a super tiny amount of release last night. It made me a little lazier, changed my saliva taste a tiny bit and could only tell by rubbing my finger on the genital and smelling it.

    I regularly do breath retention as part of my martial arts training, in the morning. I do maximum breath holds pretty much. between 30sec to 1min minimum basically. This morning I noticed they helped 'revive me' from the psychological dullness that nocturnal release creates. Very nice stuff. I think the more chi you have the more it helps; little to no chi, then probably useless.

    (By the way, don't try breath retention exercises ever lads. This is advanced for people with at least 3 years of undisputed monkmode under their belt.
    nothing increases sexual drive more than breath retention! - it increases mental lust only, not hormones/genital, it's not like Via. gra.)
     
  9. Be grateful you don’t have wet dreams. They’ve caused me to relapse several times and killed long streaks
     
  10. idk123idk

    idk123idk New Fapstronaut

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    Interesting, I have to avoid wet dreams since I need to heal from a severe neurasthenia. I would try to find a trick, something like put a cold thing on my slip when I am in bad
     
  11. what is breath retention? wim hof?
     
  12. Hello average guy,
    I would not worry about the absence of wet dreams. Your body in its' infinite wisdom is merely restoring itself. By which I mean to safe settings! This is vital after prolonged PMO addiction.
     

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