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Why do Girls Masturbate ???

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by alexandrebois, Feb 16, 2021.

  1. alexandrebois

    alexandrebois Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys!

    I've been seeing a lot of Posts about girls trying to Reboot from PMO.

    But i have a Question that's intriguing me.

    Why does girls Masturbate? They don't even need to do that.
    They have the choice, they are beautiful, they can pretty much have Sex with any handsome man they wants!! So why they PMO ??

    For me, i started this addiction because i didn't had any Girlfriend. But Girls can have 100% approbation, and can have sex with who ever they wants.

    There is a quote that says: "girls can have sex with who they wants and boys with who they can"

    So i just don't get It ! What's the point of girls PMO'ing while they can have the Real stuff?? it's just non-sence for me.

    if i had a girlfriend when i was 13-14years old, i would probably never have started this Addiction at all!
     
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  2. ShadyPerson

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    First of all maybe you'd be better off asking this from - you know - the ladies on this site. One could assume that they have more first hand experience on the issue.

    The reasons could be plenty. First of all your assumption that women can have sex with any guy they want is incorrect. Sure they tend to have an upper hand in this regard, but guys have standards for who they want to fuck too. A woman could also have plethora of traits that make it difficult for her to find a sex partner: they could be annoying, have a terrible self esteem, be shy or even be conventionally unattractive. You saying that women are so beautiful they could have anyone they wany is kinda odd. I mean if you really think that, more power to you, but something tells me you just conveniently forgot that the women, who aren't above average looking beauty queens, exist too.

    Secondly even if they could have sex with anyone, they might be looking for someone special instead of jumping into the bed with the first handsome guy they meet. People who are attractive and know their worth don't tend to feel like they have to have sex as fast as possible with anyone they can find.

    The last misconception leading to your confusion is that not everyone starts to masturbate just because they can't get laid. Some people just started so young they couldn't have been having sex. Others just wanted to explore their desires on their own. Some wanted to see what it was all about and some didn't feel ready for sexual intercourse. There are many possible reasons for why someone might start masturbating.
     
  3. alexandrebois

    alexandrebois Fapstronaut

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    Yes i understand but if they wanted to explore Sex they’ll just try PMO’ing 1 or 2 times.
    And they can have sex easily with a Man
    Why not choosing to do it with a man and Masturbating instead?!
    There are a lot of Guys who doesn’t have a Girlfriend and who are Virgins.
    i mean boys are not the best Lookings and a lot of Boys gets Rejected most of the time. But if girls weren’t Pmo’ing i guess We boys wouldn’t be rejected a lot as Today’s age.
     
  4. alexandrebois

    alexandrebois Fapstronaut

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    Also real sex is better than Porn.
    So why they would do Porn ?
    We guys choose to PMO because we don’t have the choice. We don’t have a Gf or can’t pay for sex.
    While girls can have it all for Free ! And their rejection rate is only 1%. While guys rejection rate is 99,99%
    This is quite Unfair for us boys
    Girls rejects boys a lot and prefers PMO’ing instead of having a Boyfriend. That’s kinda weird
     
  5. justname

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    Becouse they have 0 interest in sleeping with 95% of men
     
  6. palindromo

    palindromo Fapstronaut

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    because it is pleasant
     
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  7. ShadyPerson

    ShadyPerson Fapstronaut

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    There's more to sexual pleasure than you can explore in 1 or 2 times of PMO. Also it's addictive.

    Am I talking to deaf ears? I could swear I already debunked this and you didn't offer any counterarguments.

    Why would you eat anything, but your favorite food ever again? Why would you play anything but your favorite game? Why would you ever do anything that isn't the best thing in the world? Also it's not like there wouldn't be any advantages to masturbation over sex. You don't have to worry about pregnancy, std's, getting abused or a lot of other nasty stuff while masturbating.

    False. There are a lot of guys on this forum who have gf's or even wives, but still PMO.

    This is the underlying issue here. You don't view female sexuality first and foremost as something for the women themselves to enjoy, but rather as a chance for you getting laid. This leads you to feel like it's unfair that women are having sexual pleasure without having to have sex with you. But the bottom line is that no one owes you sex. No one has to justify them masturbating instead of having sex with you. Even if all women on the face of the earth decided to never have sex again and only ever watch porn for pleasure, as unfortunate and awful that would be, it still wouldn't be immoral of them to not have sex with you.
     
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  8. what gives you the idea that all girls have sex? also when you only need a finger or a phallic object to feel good why wait for a real person? also, some girls just can't get a partner because noone wants them, plus you get exposed to PMO early, even before you get a partner
     
  9. The little prince

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    because they don't dare to ask men for sex, men always do lol.
     
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  10. PanteriMauzer

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    False, if a fat girl wanted to have sex with me , i would immediatly reject her
     
  11. Anto764

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    Why a healthy person can became a drug addict? You think that all the peoplo who is drug addict they wasnt healthy before be addict?
    You think only factor to be porn addict is be ugly?
    The addictions are more complex. There are a lot of factors.
    Im a man and i often have real sex but im addict. You can think why?? But you also can think why a person smoke if he can breath fresh air.
    Disclaimer: sorry if i write wrong, im not english speaker.
     
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  12. The Archangel

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    I knew many girls in high school who couldn't get any guys. Even some beautiful ones had troubles. The only reason why you think all girls can easily get guys is because you only focus on the hot confident chicks and ignore the rest. Not saying guys and girls are equal in this department, as I'm sure guys generally have more problems, but I guess my point is that not all girls can just pull a guy out of their pocket whenever they want to. Guys who can easily get chicks exist too.
     
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  13. fredisthebes

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    PMO is safe, non scary and available for no effort. It's also a lot easier to do secretly (teenage girls are terribly concerned about getting a bad reputation sleeping with loser guys or older guys etc).

    Men and women have their own challenges, so it's a bit simple.to say girls have it easier. Men are usually larger and more powerful than women so they understandably usually find it harder to trust a guy enough to be alone with him, be intimate with him, etc. Much easier to explore these feelings with a computer screen...

    Women don't have to worry about 'performance' issues in the same way, but they have to worry about pregnancy and no contraceptive is 100% reliable...

    Maybe women arent as likely to admit their porn use is a problem? How many guys only admited their issues when they had erection problems? Women might have intimacy problems or lack of relationships but ignore porn use as a bit of fun. Its a big step to admit it is an issue, especially when it is socially acceptable (at least in some societies/cultures).
     
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  14. Trobone

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    Such a backward way of thinking n general. The entire premise that men only masturbate because they can't have sex and women shouldn't have to because they hold supernatural sexual powers is just asinine. It also assumes that men are sex hungry monsters who will screw anything with two legs while women are frigid monsters who withhold sex as a means of control and power. let's not even mention the fact that you think when you were 13-14 that whatever girlfriend you found was going to want to have sex with you, and your addiction to porn and masturbation is at the fault of not having a female sex receptacle for you to utilize when you were prepubescent.

    People masturbate because it feels good. Married men and women masturbate. People who have sex daily masturbate. Monkeys who mate regularly masturbate.

    Even if we took your completely wrong perception that women can just have sex whenever they want - it still takes effort (mental and physical) to find someone they want to do it with. Most people don't want one night stands. Most people want some sort of connection before having sex. Everyone wants some sort of physical attraction to the other person. Women who feel horny (it happens just like men) don't just walk out their door and point at random men to come inside, that's not reality. We don't live in a porn. They masturbate, just like men.



    EDIT/ADDITION

    You said this: "While girls can have it all for Free ! And their rejection rate is only 1%. While guys rejection rate is 99,99%
    This is quite Unfair for us boys"

    Get your head out of your "woe is me" fake nice guy red pill ass. As someone who in a different thread claimed to be married, maybe you should go ask your wife these questions. I have a feeling she'd slap you or at best be horribly insulted. If you want to believe the MGTOW and redpill stuff, go for it. But don't bring it outside that bubble and think it's reality.
     
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  15. OhWhenThe

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    I remember a video where a good looking guy straight up asked 100 girls for sex and an attractive woman asked 100 guys the same thing.

    The guy went 0 for 100. The girl got 35-40 out of 100 from what I remember and most who said no only did so reluctantly. Obviously there are many reasons why a girl would choose to just masturbate instead but it's clear that if sex is what they want then unless they're hideously obese or something then they're going to find it a lot easier than even the best looking of guys.
     
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  16. SickSicko

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    Sorry to break it to you but girls can be rejected too, ever seen an absurdly obese or very ugly one? They exist.
    Damn even beautiful ones can get rejected if she is batshit crazy.

    Also, pmo is easier than risking facing rejection, or finding someone you like, beautiful ladies can be insecure too you know, so pmo is just more convenient, and addictive, a no brainer really.
     
  17. Trobone

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    Even average and good looking women get rejected. Just like good looking men do.
     
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  18. SickSicko

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    Yeah, I said so aswell...:emoji_confused:
     
  19. Trobone

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    "if they're batshit crazy" was the modifier I was removing.
     
  20. SickSicko

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    Fair enough, but I'd never seen in my life a good looking woman being rejected if the guy is single, if she is not batshit crazy. Hence my added modifier.
    You are right though, that I haven't seen it doesn't mean it doesn't exist, just like the Grand Canyon.
     

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