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THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | OPEN FOR ALL

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by HiddenWarrior, Apr 2, 2019.

Have you beaten your record or improved your average noPMO since joining this?

  1. Yes

    281 vote(s)
    75.7%
  2. No

    90 vote(s)
    24.3%
  1. You can still be fighting me since currently there is nobody available to change things .

    King insists on mentioning the winner in status, that way a newbie can easily come .
    I am sorry to see you relapse, hope you are fine and do better .
     
  2. It’s a rematch then. I have to do better. If my past self and current me had a duel my past self would win. I used to be able to get 20-30 days no problem, but now I can’t make it past one week. That’s unacceptable. That means instead of grow as a person in this aspect of my life, I have regressed.
     
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  3. Here is my reset too .

    Fighting caffeine and sweets led me to this situation of a reset just like the last time .

    Lately I am a mess, I have no energy and I am emotionally drained .

    Forum is not helping me much and I made a lot of the same previous mistakes I did by trying to stay accountable in my own threads . It just makes me anxious .

    I will take things in order but unfortunately will be coming only Fridays here for participating and checking .
     
  4. I hope I do good in my new try and not make the same mistakes as always .

    I am missing this Friday to have some time for analysing what's up and rest .

    See you soon .
     
  5. Are we still fighting? If not I’ll just find a new opponent.
     
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  6. Learn from this and use experience. Don't worry as success is coming your way for both of you. I declare a rematch for this. One thing I would say is that I felt what you said bellator about past self being better and I feel the same for me that I have regressed, but there is no benefit in complaining about it let's just change the now. I heard one time a quote which was similar to, what makes a man is what he accomplishes in his day. This is all I'd say. For @Leader of ME, don't stress as you won't perform to the best of your ability if you stress. Just keep working hard and take breaks if necessary, but don't get off the track. Also thank you both for respecting the rules.
     
  7. @PegasusKid how are you doing? keep fighting hard.
     
  8. I'd like to ask all fighters:

    @PegasusKid
    @Leader of ME
    @bellator de Christi
    @fg4795
    @MixerAwersome

    what are 3 main issues you face with yourself and what can you do to improve? I would say mine are:

    1. Laziness - I just need to do the action and not fear the struggle of doing it.
    2. M (The main demotivating factor) - I need to keep fighting against urges, ignoring them. Using the duels, journalling and staying away whilst keeping clean.
    3. University work - I need to catch up

    I'll see in a week's time if I have improved.
     
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  9. The three things that are holding me back are:

    1) Lack of Consistency- I have a good plan but I usually end up sticking to it for only a few days at a time, and then fall off slowly back to my old habits. In general I just need to get comfortable being uncomfortable. Pmo also ties into this.

    2) Screentime- I spend too much time on my phone. I sometimes just go on it for no reason.

    3) Lack of prayer/ time in silence- I am a religious person but I have been lacking in this area because of distractions.
     
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  10. Daily basis?
    It's ok for me
    Checking.
     
  11. 1)Fear. I am still afraid of "my light" instead of my darkness. Ashamed of being so good in academics now for example. Need to just learn to love myself.
    2)External factors. Still too easily conditionable by other people. Solution the same of first point
    3)Porn. Still have flashbacks. Just need to keep on going.
     
  12. The three things that are holding me back : 1 ) in love with power .
    2 ) demonstrating power and being intimidating physically , mentally an brains wise .
    3 ) Being emotionally detached and finding less and less ways of feeling joy.

    @bellator de Christi next friday imma check , stay strong .
     
  13. I’ll see you then
     
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  14. I had the thought today the same way on early days of streak it's the hardest and easiest to regress, the same way it is building habits that the hardest days are to get past the initial. The other 2 seem linked, reducing screen time will increase time for prayers.
     
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  15. That first point hit hard, how hard is it to feel comfortable sometimes choosing the good path? Maybe i misunderstood. You keep going my brother.
     
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  16. what would be the drawbacks of the first two? i think it's true you have a lot of natural power and you should use that and never let anything down. For number 3, I find joy in investing time with family, friends and people. I still think you should keep the love for power as a benefit and use it for good.
     
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  17. @PegasusKid
    @Leader of ME
    @bellator de Christi
    @fg4795
    @MixerAwersome


    NEW RULE:

    THE WINNER CAN ONLY BE ANNOUNCED WHEN BOTH FIGHTERS STREAKS ARE 5+ DAYS.

    This is to eradicate pressures/stress and chaser effect losses.


    However I did lose before I added this rule to the first page even though I forgot to add it, so @PegasusKid is the rightful winner against me. As promised, for a week, I'll have as my status you won against me even though I want an immediate rematch.
     
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  18. PegasusKid

    PegasusKid Fapstronaut

    Yeah I’m definitely down for a rematch, we’re still in the same streak range anyways. This is really motivating me.
     
  19. Good to hear, let's keep fighting!
     
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