This is not community

Anti-Hero · Feb 24, 2021

MLMVSS said: ↑

my reboot’s been successful for almost 3 years now
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Congratz!

justname · Feb 24, 2021

Nephilim said: ↑

I agree to a point, a majority of people don't really care, but how much can people care about others that they haven't really met, some do care majority dont really.
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You don`t need to know a person to care

Nephilim said: ↑

I don't like the Ill rub your back and you rub mine attitude its like facebook if you don't like and post on others journals they wont post back, its fiar I know not saying its wrong but its really shows people dont care.
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I don`t like it too. People are full of bullshiting lol they even saying things like they are on this site just currently, ` once you get good you will not need this site anymore ` , `your post is not contribution to anyting` it is all about me me meeeeeeee majority of people what i am getting

Nephilim said: ↑

I had an account on here before but deleted it, made a new one recently feels the site is the same. But this is just how people are like I said its like facebook.
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I know why people are deleting accounts, there is really a lot of bullshiting lol from creators of this site to members and a lot of things which are said are really not fair to say, that is true there is too much bullshiting lol but i wont bring all other things in thread becouse this is supposed to be about only 1 topic

Nephilim said: ↑

Think what this site really gives in insight into that we are not alone, we read other journals of people struggling, look at success stories and so on, for me it helps, I learned a lot about myself by reading what other people have written in their journals.
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And 1 more bullshiting by site lol gives us illusion that we are not alone

justname · Feb 24, 2021

MLMVSS said: ↑

I have over 7,500 likes. I never cared for receiving any of them. That’s not why I make posts. Those were mainly from a few years ago when I was constantly involved with other people’s journeys
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Of course you are not 1 of those people becouse you are not even active in site. I am talking about majority

MLMVSS said: ↑

Now, I log on once in a blue moon because my reboot’s been successful for almost 3 years now mixed with a disdain for the vitriol some sections have become (which is a separate issue altogether).
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Yes! Congratulations on success. But now you don`t need us anymore and now you leaveeeeeeee us. It was all about me me meeeeeeee what do i get and then i leave my community

MLMVSS said: ↑

while you get others who offer support for those who have fallen
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Just becouse a person is successful at nofap, doesn`t mean they are going to support others. Actually majority successful people on nofap don`t lol. They just leave becouse they got what is needed and there is nothing for them to get anymore

MLMVSS said: ↑

Whether people truly care or not is up for that person to decide, not for you
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In other words, people have the right to be selfish. Yes that is true but i had the right to open this thread too. I pull back the words i said earlier lol that i will just ignore what i don`t like in site the guy earlier was so kind that he almost manipulated me for a seconds to become silent, fuck no i will stay loud lol let`s change something and make this site amazing place, becouse sometimes it doesn`t feel good to be in surroundings like this, it makes impact on people that is why some of them even leaving

Xamigongal · Feb 24, 2021

Hmm and what 's the thing you try to make clear?

MLMVSS · Feb 24, 2021

justname said: ↑

Yes! Congratulations on success. But now you don`t need us anymore and now you leaveeeeeeee us. It was all about me me meeeeeeee what do i get and then i leave my community
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As I stated in my previous post, I left for other reasons. The OT area was full of trolls who constantly pushed divisive, ignorant, or conspiratorial threads that were hardly moderated then, and when I tried going into other areas, those issues only carried on. That slowly outweighed the positives I got from here, up until the time I managed better, then being here was only an energy drain.

justname said: ↑

Just becouse a person is successful at nofap, doesn`t mean they are going to support others. Actually majority successful people on nofap don`t lol. They just leave becouse they got what is needed and there is nothing for them to get anymore
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And that’s their choice. Nobody is forced to be here. But there are a few who do stick around.

justname · Feb 26, 2021

Xamigongal said: ↑

Hmm and what 's the thing you try to make clear?
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Nothing? Things are already made clear at the beginning of thread, i pointed out at idiotism A and idiotism B people`s behaviors and now it is up to them to grow or to stay in old behaviors

MLMVSS said: ↑

As I stated in my previous post, I left for other reasons. The OT area was full of trolls who constantly pushed divisive, ignorant, or conspiratorial threads that were hardly moderated then, and when I tried going into other areas, those issues only carried on. That slowly outweighed the positives I got from here, up until the time I managed better, then being here was only an energy drain.

And that’s their choice. Nobody is forced to be here. But there are a few who do stick around.
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Yes there is a lot of negativity in forums, too much serious energy too not even 1% threads are sence of humor, especially posts it`s 00001% sence of humor i can`t even use messenger emojis but i have to use a couple of those stupid emojis from forum, or i need to put effort to put messenger emojis in other ways. I am on this site becouse i felt like it will make my journey easyer and it really did, i am on day 67 PMO free mode and i really don`t know how it works, perhaps arguing with idiots helped aaaaaaaaaaaahahahaha

justname · Feb 26, 2021

This answer got a lot of likes and i agree too it`s one of top 3 most honest answers in thread

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I’m talking as myself not as a mod but I would be EXTREMELY happy if likes were removed. I couldn’t care less about them. Nothing pisses me off more than fake support for internet clout. You’re here because you’re addicted to pornography and masturbation, or you’d like to reduce how much you’re using any of those. If getting likes is part of the process for you, love that for you, but tell me why it matters compared to genuine support and interaction. A comment is a bazillion times better than a like. Rant over. Now I disagree with you, as long as people talk to each other with a shared goal this is a community
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ALEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEX

@Alexander will you do us a favor and remove likes from site so we see people in their true colors? ^^

Deleted Account · Feb 26, 2021

The irony that my post got likes is particularly subtle lol

Nephilim · Feb 26, 2021

I wouldn't mind having the "like system" removed. For me I feel that quitting facebook, instagram all these dopamine inducing sites is the way to go, I say quit all addictions cold turkey, and with this being kind of like Facebook it kind of ruins the purpose. I know its not as bad to be addicted to likes and such as PMO but I feel quit it all.

ShadyPerson · Feb 27, 2021

Tbh I mostly go on the off-topic and treat this forum as I would any other internet forum. The only reason I don't just abandon the whole site altogether and find another forum to help me pass time is that I like the day counter. Let's face it: you can talk only so much about how you don't want to jerk off anymore.

I think another reason for why this isn't really much of a community is the fact that most people tend to just vanish from the site alltogether or aren't super active in the first place. Seriously I've been here for - what - two years? And I only recognize a handful of the people talking here. Even those people I mostly have little to no connection with. And that's not because I wouldn't be ready to form any friendships, but because most of the people I used to think I could get to know better have left. And while it would be great if we could all just automatically care for everyone on the site and sing kumbaya together, people usually don't have enough time and energy to care about people they don't know and for all likelihood won't ever get to know on any personal level.

Idk why you brought up likes. I don't even give any likes and hardly pay attention to them at all, but that doesn't seem to make my experience any more communal.

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