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Have people been able to have sex on a consistent day by day basis?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Anonymous86, Feb 27, 2021.

  1. Anonymous86

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    Have people been able to have sex on a consistent day by day basis after healing from their chronic PIED and doing NoFap to heal erections, libido, etc.?

    I have read that this is not possible. Is there any truth to this? Any one here have possible first-hand accounts?
     
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    Do you mean, if we get rid of PIED we'll never struggle with ED again? It's a good question. I am 40 days into hardmode and am having morning wood and/or other spontaneous erections every day so things are going in the right direction so to speak. But I'm not in a situation where I have been able to rewire so I can't answer from experience regarding sex IRL. Interested to hear from others.
     
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  3. Anonymous86

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    Well my question was meant along the lines of, are people who suffer from severe chronic PIED who finish a reboot, are they able to completely heal and are have consistent sex (everyday).
     
  4. Hello.

    I just saw this post and I take the liberty of contributing something that strikes me about it:

    I don't think there are couples who can have sex every day. Normally, the frequency of people is three times a week or even less. In the first two years of a relationship sex is more frequent. But, after two years of relationship, sex is less frequent between two people. I am basing this on statistics I have read. Maybe occasional cases do it more often.

    Also the frequency of sex depends on how old we are. If you are young, the frequency is likely to be two or three times a week. After 40s the frequency is less.

    As abusive PMO users ourselves, I think we can never know for sure what our true performance might have been.

    What I have noticed on these forums is that people feel recovered but after a lot of frequent sex they feel flat again and have to take long breaks from orgasm again. Even if they are men in their 20s. In other words, PMO does affect sexual performance as the latest study by the European urological association suggests (YBOP has the full data).

    My theory is that after being a heavy user of PMO we have to change the way we look at sex: we should focus from now on not on performance, but on foreplay, enjoying the moment. It's about travelling, not coming, and above all, it's very important to limit orgasms. Maybe karezza is an appropriate way of looking at sex for us and we should stop putting so much importance on erection, performance and orgasms.

    That doesn't mean that we can't have orgasms, but we should have them much less often. Just my two cents here.
     

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