When did you start dating again?

I dont know if you have any kind of PIED or not but when you already grew up with low self-esteem and always where a follower and not a leader or even bullied (in my case) there is a big chance you dont really had any success with girls

I cured my PIED with an escort (conducted an experiment and it worked) and wanted to move to the real dating scene just to figure out that there is a dating game (saying the right thing at the right time, escalate touching and not caring more than she does) and I suck at this game

I came across alot of "theory" and I have to awaken the "dating god" in me or replacing a scooter with a ferrari, so there is a solution to my problem

in conclusion PMO is a smoke screen for your real problems... I lost 10 years to pmo and I'm going into my 30s without having had any girlfriend

but you will have to figure out what problems to adress and fix them

 

so just to be clear; you have like 500+ days free of pmo and yet have no games? what about the superpowers?

 

pmo and dating and having a relationship is something completely different...

the superpowers is stuff you have when you are "normal"... with pmo you tricked your brain that you have a gf or wife and dont need to step up

pmo is just a symptom and not root of a problem

you dont get a girlfriend when are 300 days or more free from this curse you still have to learn "social skills" (but you can learn those)

and to be frank: this is a common problem with our society you want instant gratification without working on your problems first

 

but you do have 500+ days no?

 

I'm at about 800 days (started in august 2018)

I dont know if you understood me but a successful unwiring is just a precursor... the real problems appear only when you arent "druged" from pmo

 

90+ days. Eliminate all Psubs, everything digital especially social media shit junk. Your mind body and soul will go through a metamorphosis FOR REAL! You will know when you are there.

 

I did around day 90. I remeber having sex for the first time in 5 years after my first 86 days of nofap