Bribing Wife For Sex

Try to be more cool about it, let her come to you. You are not being very masculine or attractive by being so desperate

No money for sex

 

I don't like to announce it to you, but it seems more like sex addiction. You tried to replace porn use with sex, but it became another compulsive behavior.

While trying to avoid porn use you thought of it as the result of an unsatisfied need, rather than an escalating habit. This is why you resorted to excessive sex, but without altering the addictive component.

 

Sex is a great pleasure, but if your desire for sex stays insatiable it will bring even more pain, especially if she stop sex altogether, or controls you with it, or if you end up having affairs and creating needless drama and heartbreak.

Paying for sex could be fine if this was some occasional role-play fantasy you were both having fun with, and the money comes from the shared account and goes back to the shared account.

But given what I heard, you have such need for sex that you have to pay your own wife for it. Do you think this is going to make you more attractive in her eyes? If she becomes less and less attracted to you, do you think you're going to have more or less sex over time?

@milarepa999 is right, and think it is a great idea for you to intentionally lay off and let her initiate instead. Practice the self discipline of NOT initiating sex, allowing for sexual frustration, and address other things in life with the extra time (exercise, diet, journaling).

 

Not good on a lot of levels - and probably beyond the advice of anyone who doesn't know the two of you personally. Your wife is not a hooker, and you are not a john. Time for some hard talks and retrospection.

 

This is addict behavior and shows you are not in recovery. You want the high of orgasm and don't care about connecting with your wife. Get yourself on the bandwagon and stop using your woman as your personal sex toy.

 

is she practicing nofap also cause if she is M'ing while shes alone showering or Ming while your at work that well diminish her sex drive also

 

His job is to address his own addict behavior, not police his non addict wife's behavior.

 

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