Penis size / Porn addiction

Mine is 20 cm, 7.87 inches and 11cm 4.33 inches when flacid, but that didnt lead to any benefits to me ,honnestly, actually in some situations it made me worst , i train contact sports and sometimes i got hit too many times because of that my penis is more sensible, and it lead me to have a sexting addiction where i send photos of my penis just to have the compliments of the womens , thats not ok, thats dirty and wrong

 

Its above average, in terms of percentage ots not that much but when you see the numbers its still alot

 

Agreed. It's quite unusual to be above 7 inches and very rare to be above 8 inches. It's also quite unusual to be below 4.5 inches. Calling such penises "average" is ridiculous. 7 inches is clearly large by most standards, 8 inches might be considered huge and anything under 4.5 inches is clearly small. 3 inches and below would be the realm of the tiny. Let's stop kidding ourselves.

 

It is okay man. Porn does actually affect the penis size especially when you are a teen. You should not worry about. You perhaps need to accept yourself despite the things you wish you had but don't. It will take a while. Just keep the work on

 

I hear you man, I'm 6.2", and got a lot concerned of the size as well, possibly because of PMO, but is a constant thought difficult to take away. I have been reading that there are some techniques people do, I thought that was bullshit but it seems it works.

But at the same time, don't know if its worth feeling so anxious about it.

 

Yeah, I've seen so many short guys with much bigger dicks than me. It's rough being tall. I feel like women just expect me to have a big one and I get all sorts of anxiety about what they really think when they see that mine is shorter than most

 

What to do If one feels obsessed with this? One of the obtrusive thoughts i Have is working on enlarging my penis

 

Its impossible to enlarge your penis

 

This will still only give you 1/2-1” Increase. If it’s really effecting your mental health, I’m pretty sure you can get the operation done on the NHS there’s a condition called micropenis I’m not sure what size that is. But Personally I would go and see my doctor and really milk the fact that it is messing up my life. Speak to the surgeon and get a medical opinion on the op.

 

Don’t take this guys advice. You’re just going down a road with no end, paved with dissatisfaction and insecurities about yourself. You have to accept it for what it is.

 

I started watching porn at 8 and felt like I had a pencil dick for most of my adolescence. I became obsessed with comparing with others so I was always trying to get friends in a position to see theirs or checking out others. I didn’t understand how puberty works or that everyone is different. The perspective position was the hardest. I think everyone else looked bigger. It wasn’t until years later after a game of truth or dare when I girl gave me a hickey beside my shaft in front of a room full of friends. One guy later asked if I was hung like a horse, lol. I’m not but from his side I looked that way. You have what you have, you can maybe change it a slight amount with all of these exercises. I know one thing you can do is make them other person you with cum so hard they aren’t going to care what you have inside of them. Confidence of everything.

 

Surely that’s like excepting I’m skinny! If I want to do something about it I’d go to the gym. It’s not for everyone and you’re not going to get huge results straight away. But it is a good feeling when you’re packing and you’re making a chick love it in bed. I just put a little bit in a daily routine. If you’re a grower not a shower it helps quite a lot with flaccid size. If you’ve had negative comments about it before it’s nice to be able to do something about it. But yea don’t obsess too much! Strippers and pornstars do PE, men that have had prostate operations will be given a pump and stretching device. It’s not that much of a big deal.

 

does it really work?

 

Yea, but takes work and patience. Sometimes it will grow bigger than other times . If I haven’t come in a while and have been Excercising it it can grow massive. I get a lot more girth after bathmate. You stretch the tissues over time allowing them to fill up more. Wearing a penis ring keeps the blood trapped in the areas you’ve stretched and can give you a good inch girth increase. Without the ring the girth isn’t as noticeable but gradually it does increase and as I say some days are bigger than others.

 

As I mentioned in my earlier reply to this post. This is something I have struggled with big time in my life. I was actually diagnosed with Body Dysmorphic Disorder, because of this issue.

I firmly believe that porn can cause BDD, which is a subtype of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. I had OCD as a kid, and grew out of it when I became a teenager. However, pornography provoked old habits of obsessive compulsive thinking in regards to my penis size. I had to see a counselor and chose to be evaluated by a psychologist. I was eventually prescriber the generic for Zoloft, which is used to treat OCD symptoms.

Taking this medication helped me to think more rationally toward this issue. I have come to love my penis. It is by no means a porn star penis, it's average. And average is ok! That means I'm normal. Knowing the truth about penis size and what really matters to a woman (i.e. that you love and cherish her) has helped me to love my body and accept myself.

My advice to anyone struggling with this is to treat this issue as a psychological issue, not a physiological issue. Don't worry about making your penis bigger. As I have said before: work on making your heart bigger. Build character and learn to love others without placing such a high importance on there sexual value. Strive to be both a physically and emotionally healthy person. That means you need to raise your middle finger in the air and scream #%$* you pornography! Porn does not make you a man or a better lover. It turns you into a neurotic, immature child.

 

Glad you’ve overcome body dysmorphia. I definitely know what you mean! When I looked at that operation that adds 2 inch I thought wouldn’t it be cool to flop out 9. To show those fuckers that made a comment years ago. But 1) this made me feel that what I had already 7-7.5 wasn’t good enough and 2 what if it looked deformed with something bulging unnaturally inside my dick. I doubt it would but certainly wouldn’t make me feel amazing. Confidence has got to come from within or you’ll just find something else to obsess over.

 

Someone did a study that most of the guys that Under go penis enlargement actually are dead center or upper end of average if not above. I swear you could put two identical guys together and each of them will swear the other is longer or thicker. It’s funny what perception does to your thinking.

 

I’m also struggling right now too with this. Visually I show 5 inches right now (I have a decent fat pad thickness). I’m really bothering my lover with my insecurities and it really sucks putting her through that pain. They say 5 isn’t bad. But I actually damaged my tissues years back. Used to show like 6.5 and still had like 1.5 inch fat pad on top of that. The size loss (about 1.5 length and maybe quarter of an inch top down view of thickness) really really brings my confidence down. I basically went from an actual big penis where people would say oh nice that’s actually pretty big, to a penis that looks below average. I was a grower before and my flaccid penis was very stretchy, now it does not stretch almost at all. I gave myself internal scar tissue trying to jelq to get my already big penis bigger and completely destroyed my confidence as a consequence. A very dumb decision fuelled probably by porn tbh and not feeling good enough with an above average penis when in actuality I was the same size as most of the “smaller” porn guys. How do I deal with looking down at my erection and seeing something that basically looks like someone chopped half of my old penis off? Not very well unfortunately. I get sadness, I get anxiety, I sometimes get anger and lash out at myself calling myself hurtful names based on penis size. My gf assures me it’s satisfying to her. And I do make her orgasm every single time, sometimes multiple times. But it is a big turn off to me if I go harder or try to go deep, just feels like I’m doing literally nothing to her. And I get totally out of the moment and lose my erection. Tried doggystyle once or twice and my penis felt so damn small in her. Like I was doing notta. Only actually got like 2-3 inches in her since she’s got the booty. That probably bums me out the most cause I know before me she liked to get it all the way to the back from the back. And it is rough feeling like I can’t provide something to her that she likes. But she just assured me she likes what we do the best. And I do give her stronger orgasms than ever before (I’m guessing just from being into me visually and emotionally). So being with someone that actually just loves me for me is basically my only saving grace. It is still very hard to not feel inadequate since I can’t slam the back of her v. But it helps knowing she’s just attracted to me in general and I give her orgasms. Some of which she’s said 20 out of 10. Literally the only thing that can help (me atleast) with size sadness is love. And I’m still struggling cause I lost inches (I’m sure if I was always this size and made her orgasm so strong I’d feel just amazing), but it’s manageable because of how much love she puts into me and how much support she gives. I really am trying to get over my penis so we can continue to make passionate love without me getting out of it due to penis size mental problems. Cause at the end of the day, I just want passion and nice things and to not have to worry about anything when making love. And to not hurt my lover emotionally with my problems would be great