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Not just the Fap!

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Brettnrecovery, Mar 13, 2021.

  1. Brettnrecovery

    Brettnrecovery Fapstronaut

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    I am addressing my porn issues as well as other issues. I am very serious about this and very hopeful for change.
    Why am I focusing on the porn? Because that's where it all started and often times where a binge starts.
    I look at some of these threads and am amazed at some of the comments that I've seen. Patting someone on the back and being jealous because they have had hundreds of women??
    I am one of those that have had women in the hundreds. I am not proud of that. Years and years of draining my soul and human wreckage in my wake.
    Fellas.... I'm sure a number of you know this (especially in this area) but it all goes hand in hand.
    To stop fapping and have indiscriminate sex is like an alcoholic saying "No more whiskey for me...from now on I'll drink wine."
    For me it all stems from the same problem. Reaching outside of myself for some emptiness and pain on the inside.
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  2. thanks for bringing this up. Porn addiction and sex addiction feed into each other. Porn makes you want to act out those scenarios with a partner. That is degrading and disrespectful to them. I want to beat my porn addiction before i engage in more sex. I have had enough that was not good because of porn. I only remember one woman fondly that i was with and i want to be with her again but not be a porn addict and roleplay sex scenarios
     
  3. Brettnrecovery

    Brettnrecovery Fapstronaut

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    I agree. It's also disrespectful and degrading to us.
     

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