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Is sex necessary for a successful relationship?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Deleted Account, Mar 11, 2021.

  1. justname

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    When i was porn addict i was complaining that love is all about sex and now after nofap i turned into biggest pervert (yes, i am pervert lmao) and even from my perverted perspective you making love all about sex and then pointing out at porn addicts like they are different than you hahahahaha what a hypocrisy
     
  2. Lol you would have been gone so fast back when we had more mods
     
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  3. The Archangel

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    Yes, do it.
     
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  4. justname

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    Lol if mods was back then as you are describing, then universe pushed them away from this site to make this site a better place, becouse even from now my perspective it`s ugly place, i don`t want to imagine before lol.... without me this site would be very boring becouse almost nobody has sence of humor, we need 100 more people like me for balance, i too helped soooooo many people and gave them wise informations which will really help them on so many areas of their life despite PMO, my profile is very helpful, and nobody even said thank you and all they doing is bringing 1 or 2 threads i opened in past just like this quote says `a man can do 1000 good things, but people will remember only 1 thing he has done bad`
     
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  5. justname

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  6. arpegius

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    I'm going to have to go with a HARD yes here. Neither women or men are stupid - both sexes know that they are horny for each other. Women won't respect you at all when you don't screw them well. If you don't, it just shows her that you don't like her (or that you are a porn addict and can't even get it up). Sex is the sole thing which reinforces the polarity which makes the base of a relationship. Don't fool yourself. If she's not having sex with you, she's soon going to find a way to fullfill her need with somebody else.
     
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  7. Sexuality is complicated, some people just aren't as horny. Asexuality is a thing too.
     
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  8. Lilla_My

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    I like the old saying; "if sex is good, it's 10% of the relationship. If it's bad, it's 90%".
     
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  9. phwrancesco

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  10. A relationship is defined by sex. The more sexless and orgasm less the relationship is, the more the couple connects with each other. Most couples drain each other’s energies through sex. Which causes a lot of tension in a relationship because both parties don’t have the same horny feelings for each other. When a relationship is practiced through karezza(sex without orgasm), the couple stays together for life. This is because the couple is in one affectionate union for each other.

    The thing is that nobody knows this. So people keep having orgasm sex without realizing the negatives of it.

    Keep in mind, orgasm sex has positives too, but nobody is taught the negatives of orgasm sex.
     
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  11. phwrancesco

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    Hope it's a prank.
     
  12. God wants us to stay virgins until marriage so I would say it is the best way to go.
     
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  13. brassknucks

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    Its the glue of a relationship, and important, but not the most important thing.
     
  14. phwrancesco

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    Gods want us not to masturbate too, but don't seems like you're following his advices on this.
    So you guys listen to god only on what is more confortable to you.
     
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  15. was about to get real mad for how ignorant and rude your comment was but I will respond calmly, I would not be on this website if I wanted to keep sinning and masturbating we are all in bondage trying to break free, please think before you speak.
     
  16. phwrancesco

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    I didn't mean to offend you. I was only bringing to your attention the evident hypocrisy of your behaviour.

    Why should someone take an advice from someone who's not capable himself of do what he say?
     
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  17. Apology appreciated, I get it I mess up a lot and I freaking hate myself for it, I do not expect anyone to take me seriously but I speak what I know to be true and that is all I can do.
     
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  18. In my opinion, no, it’s not necessary. Communication is the most important part of any relationship. Sex is the emotionally bonding with your partner. So, sex is the glue but not the most important. You can be celibate with your partner and still have a successful relationship.
     
  19. Trobone

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    I would say sex itself is not 100% neccessary. There are long-term successful relationships (both marriage and platonic friendships) that include no sex at all.

    I would say that sex is a form of intimacy - and intimacy in general is neccessary. If there is no sex, that intimacy must be made up for elsewhere - be it conversation, hobbies, non-sexual touch, etc.
     
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  20. Rationaliser

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    I'm out of popcorn, so I'm unwatching this thread now.
     

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