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Can’t wait to be murdered in prison

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by mAtHy0o, Feb 1, 2021.

  1. WhiteLion

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    Real life does work that way if you join the right cult.
     
  2. punch54

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    Would you care to give an example of a cult that works like that?
     
  3. WhiteLion

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    The Unification Church
     
  4. mAtHy0o

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    Female roommate? I don’t think so.
     
  5. WhiteLion

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    If you can not find a way of exposing yourself to the things that bother you in a safe way, then how will you get better?
     
  6. mAtHy0o

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    Good point
     
  7. WhiteLion

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    Finding safe ways of exposing myself to the things that bother you can help you to not react as negatively. Can you think of any ways you might do that?
     
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  8. GripStrength

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    I’m pretty sure I have the tism as well. I know it’s hard to be able to socialize, but I think I’ve just studied people enough to where I think I’m acting normal. Should try it out. I personally can’t understand a lot of like expressions and how people say certain things with “character”, still doesn’t click for me and I think everyone is an actor, and sometimes go all weird and spiralling, and paranoia about it.

    The thing I think it helps the best for porn addiction and fapping and all that, is that I often go finely into the details of a habit or something I don’t like. And I go as deep as possible and actually figure out the origins of why I’m like that. And once I do that. I can simply decide to not be into something.

    You should really try to go deep into yourself and identity your problem when it comes to fapping. I’ve done this for a lot of different shit. Anorexia fetish (completely gone, not even close to being there at all), sissy shit (almost completely gone, I’d say gone in general but self doubt sometimes triggers the reason why I was into it in the first place), the list goes on and on. Everyone has the ability to simply chose not to be aroused by something.
    So try it out.
    And for socializing things, I’m not much help there ha. I know it’s hard but don’t give up. I found someone that loves me how I am and wants to be with me forever. You can too.
     
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  9. mAtHy0o

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    Not sure
     
  10. source: dude trust me
     
  11. I've said it before and I'll say it again, don't be afraid to talk to a therapist
     
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  12. mAtHy0o

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    That sounds nice.
     
  13. WhiteLion

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    I think you are going to need some help desensitizing because of your challenges with communication. There might be peer support groups in your area. Do you spend much time with women or children?
     
  14. mAtHy0o

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    Outside my family no
     
  15. WhiteLion

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    Spending more time with women and children would help you. I know it will not be easy for you. Learning how to have normal conversation with women will help, but you will likely need help with getting accustomed to social interaction. I got nervous about children a lot, but then I took a job working with them and learned how to interact with them. You can do this, but I need to be honest with you, with the issues that you have it maybe a lot of work. Do not get discouraged.
     
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  16. TheProcedure

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    Is the FBI watching this individual?
     
  18. Moatasem

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    We need an update lad :).
     
  19. Bon-Bon XO

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    Hey buddy, I'm not sure if you remember me, how is everything going with you?
     
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  20. Moatasem

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    Oh yeah, I remember you man, I just finished my sophomore year in high school, I'm taking mathematics and mechanics in the summer right now and my finals for them are after about a week, though I'm still constantly relapsing helplessly while being depressed, sometimes I wish I could get back to a state prior to my porn addiction again where I was in serenity and the little things in life used to excite me and when I wasn't apathetic towards my dreams and goals, but the urge of using porn is formidable and stronger, so it's phenomenally difficult lol, it's a vicious cycle. How about you bud?!
     

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