Making my sexual dreams come true does't help

Thank you for sharing

 

You acted like an animal following his instincts. Having promiscuous sex left and right. And you wonder it didn't "help"? It is not much different from porn addiction, a thing called sex addiction. Seems to me you need to do it hard mode for a while and stop acting upon your desires.

 

I don't see why you're condemning him when it's clear that he came here to share what he has learned about this mistake.

 

Thanks for this post bro, excellent insight

 

Good insight. I have had similar realizations. I went through a period of pretty extreme promiscuity and it did nothing to stop my porn cravings. I'm back on the monogamy train and am hoping my current relationship turns into something long term. OP is right that it won't help to try to act out. It's a porn induced pseudo reality and another trap

 

I can confirm OP's post. Quitting porn revealed to me what made me use porn in the first place. And now I'm working on those troubles. Porn is a drug and drug users use drugs to numb themselves from something. That something gets uncovered with the absence of porn, which is why it is so hard to maintain abstinent.
I don't judge your time going around and living a little bit. I think that is part of the process. Did that myself. Some might not do that, some will.
Keep being strong, thx for sharing.

 

If she is into you she is probably going to like it.. if she is really into you she is going to like everything you text her.
You can even insult her and she is going to like it because she is so into you, she can't handle herself.

Yeap, this is what society always told us to do, but nice guys always finish last..
I'm not telling you to go out there and talk dirty to every woman because woman that are not into you are going to be offended, but when you know a woman is into you she is going to be glad that you have the balls to talk to her like that.

Of course not, when they are attracted to a man they want him all over them 24/7.

You put them out of the pedestal, you treat them as equals. Woman love man that do that and they begin to put you in a pedestal and look for your atention and validation.

Of course not, they are 2 different things. Only 1% of woman are going to behave like a porn star in bed, and having multiple of that woman to date at the same time is almost imposible.
Normal sex is totally different than porn. Normal sex is never going to replace porn.

This is not good, you were using them as objects, unless they also used you as a human dildo.

It could be a sex addiction... maybe yes, maybe not. Man love sex, and having sex with multiple woman. It makes him feel like a stud but it don't last for long, to keep feeling like it you need to get another one in the nutch. I really prefer to have some kind of connection with her, like having sex after really having fun talking while having a drink and keep seen her.
When you have a connection with the other person sex get to a new lever, and when you are in love is also another level.
I was in all of that levels and still was attracted to porn, porn is different but you know that is not healthy and is your choice to leave it behind or not.

Agree.. is going to put it under the bed.. but is still going to be there.

 

These guys coming on here talking about all the hot women they've laid (not picking on the OP, there are some others here on NoFap too), maybe explain how you're getting all these women to go to bed with you in the first place. A lot of guys turn to PMO because they can't pull women in real life so you'd be doing them a big favor.

 

It shouldn’t be a surprise that the male sexual drive is huge and having sex won’t necessarily be a buffer to porn usage but more like lighter fluid.

 

People post advice on how to do well with women all the time. Most of it is crap and nobody wants to hear the good advice because it's not going to just work tomorrow. The best advice is something like; get hobbies that aren't at a computer, study philosophy, use cognitive behavioral therapy to learn about yourself and gain emotional intelligence, do interesting things so you have interesting stories, learn to enjoy women because they are women and don't worry about trying to have sex with them as that's only a small portion of what women bring. Learn to dress well and learn manners, read everything, learn a foreign language, travel to other countries, get over your insecurities about baldness, or having a small dick or being too fat or skinny or getting rejected. In other words do years of hard work to become a better, kinder, more self aware person. Very few guys are going to take this advice because it's not a quick fix.

 

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