Sexual desire and week erection

Well I can say that for me porn was a massive and still can be, killer of my erections and sexual intimacy. I think if you are posting on here you understand that it can be and your only way to find out is to get pmo free. It can take a long time, and if you keep going to pmo it ain't going to happen any sooner, for me it took 5 years because I couldn't stop watching porn, but then it eventually turned into anxiety based ed, so you have to be careful.

You are most likely worrying about the whole situation which will not help at all too, if you start thinking about it I can guarantee it won't happen, just learn to be in the moment and most importantly stay away from porn forever; you can stay away for a while and think it's all sorted, but I guarantee it will cause the same problems if you return.

Hope this helps and good luck!

 

yeah weak erections and porn affect me

 

lol im not sure im only at 6 days

 

Well my friend in my opinion I think it can be a matter of both situations. We we are on porn our minds are sensitized if that makes any sense. In the long run we are being programmed to ejaculate right away and of course finish since movies online can be about 10 minutes long or 5 minutes, so its more stress on us. Seeing our manifestations in front of us on a video in reality is a 10x more high then a real woman. Then we are not naturally built in to the real life version of sexual intercourse. I believe it can be a mental and to a physical level as well. Including low self esteem which I am dealing with right now. So of course seeing a real Woman in person is going to take you to another physical level your mind is not ready for. As they say Pixels are potential poison to our minds since it can mimic reality. This is why we feel depressed or anxiety afterword's because you don't know what you just ejaculated to and didn't feel in reality. So yes it is a loss.

 

I know first hand that your erection gets stronger if you don’t PMO or fantasize. My first no PMO streak was 4-5 days and I achieved an erection of about 90% from only 70%. Not had one that strong for many years. I achieved that by truly believing I was done with PMO and blocking out all sexual thoughts from lingering in my mind.

Once you get your rock hard erections don’t look back. Don’t think you’re boner won’t ever be soft again like I did and go back to PMO. Lucky for you you have a gf so you’ll have someone to use it on.

Most ED cases are due to some sort of mental block. I’ve had social anxiety most of my life and that brings low self-esteem, insecurities, self consciousness, etc. So back when I got those strong erections it wasn’t only due to me ditching PMO and sexual thoughts, it was also me feeling better about myself, being more confident and clear minded. If you do all these things and truly believe in yourself I have no doubt that your erections will be granite like again. STAY STRONG

 

Also don’t think of how weak your erection is either. It’s negative thoughts that make us feel like crap and it shows on our bodies

 

Should we really masturbate to begin with?
Anyhow, your idea makes me wonder if you are crazy or if you are some damn genious, my stupid brain is "nah nah, excuses bro, no willy touching" and another half of my brain like "THAT'S BLOODY BRILLIANT! not technically willy touching, GOTCHA!"

 

Nah you don't hate it, proof of it is that you brought it out as soon as you got the chance but if you like measuring IQ dick sizes I will pull mine and smash the table with the force of 158 points, damn, you know IQ is a silly thing right?
I'm not pompous, but surely I can be a prick.
Now, moving on.

Is there a natural and unnatural way? Wow, that's new.
Appeal to nature fallacy. There is no such thing as a natural way vs unnatural way.

Fact

False assumption, and not fact.

That's debatable.
At best, is your assumption that is not.

Those studies are utterly ridiculous and not enough study of the relation between both things is still known, at best you can debate that total abstinance vs a somewhat regularity plays a rol on it.
Surely not necessarily 5 times a week, that's 100% detrimental.
Current science doesn't event have his head figured out completely about cancer and still stupidity like this lurks around, hilarious.

Agreed

The difference is neglectable.

No thank you I rather keep being a potatoe.

Your idea is not completely wrong, and clearly can think out of the box, that's great, in any case the idea comes from a very clear assumption, that you need to masturbate, or that is healthy for you, when in fact, it is at the very least, debatable, if not wrong, you should be trying to mate with the opposite sex, that's what our reproductive system is built for.

 

I'm aware of that.

Fair enough, still, it wasn't a direct question.

Even when you are right on this, I will still regard it as a silly parameter, I have my reasons for this, being mostly an admittedly my personal views on human intelligence and not a concensus.

Indeed, you could have just said you were a genious, answering my doubt even when it wasn't a direct question. But you had to flash your IQ.

Aaand I took that personally, is like bragging about dick size, intellectually speaking.

Now I will try to go through the points as briefly as possible.

I see what you trying to say, but my point is, what is and what is not within the realm of what we consider natural or unnatural, is having hands natural? is rubbing a body part natural? is humping a pillow with a hole natural? what is unnatural about anything? Are humans separated in any way from nature? What is nature?
So many things to clarify before anyone can establish that masturbation is or is not natural.

I will repeat myself, you could have perfectly followed up and say you were a genious, without the need of mention any IQ points and what that makes you in brackets, also what drives me is not insecurity but disdain for people that mention their IQ just because...

A couple of, to be fair I'm not even sure if they were psychologist or what they were, assessed it twice, once at 8 and second time at 16.
Although according to the result I'm pretty unbalanced meaning I have very high puntuations in some areas and average on others.
Anyhow, not the internet.

Sorry to hear about your experience, that doesn't make the understanding of cancer better than it is on the healthcare community anyways...

I'm not arguing about usage, we can agree on that, I'm arguing about the minimum periodicity require to have the same risks, also the body have ways of release and stimulate the prostate even during sleep, yeah, we are going to use it, you don't have to ejaculate 5 days a week to avoid cancer though.

You cannot determine the likehood of cancer based on a single parameter, again, cancer is laughably misunderstood, too many parameters play a rol on it.

Should it rephrase that as "surely detrimental" is not coming from "the nofap doctrine" I'm fairly new in this place in fact.

I would appreciate it if you stopped to trying to lecture me about how humans are or used to be, yeah, we are fucking it up both right now in fact.

Endomorphines is not something to take lightly, lots of people here talk about dopamine but the real one driving the addictive behaviour is endomorphine.
So I would regard it as a very potentially addictive behaviour, at the same level of some other drugs.
And it is for a reason obviously, you are meant to be a crack head trying to mate, not a crackhead jerking off, or a crack head jerking off to a screen.

Agreed

Why you have to be so condescending? Is not good for you, neither for people around you.
That's what ticked me off, I used to be much more condescending than that, like, the rest are so slow aren't they? Is like people can't figure stuff up while you have thought about that ages ago...and is baffling how some seem to even be incapable of figuring certain things out.

Well, not everyone is blessed in the same ways.

Nothing of what you said, I did not know, still, although you are surely thinking things through more than most people I've seen, I think, you can do better, because mainly what sets us apart in this, for what I can tell, is our understanding of the health implications of the frequency on ejaculation.

Anyhow, I like you, you have some brains on your shoulders, just don't like the bragging (bit of projected self-hate towards a former way of being to be fair) and that condescending way of saying stuff, but cannot blame you, it happens to be best of us.

Good day.

 

100% agree with this! People take nofap and semen retention way too seriously. Males are designed to regularly ejaculate!

What we are trying to do is heal our brains from damage done by p0rn and regain physical sensation and control again. Lucky for me I get regular sex and have been in a relationship for 11 years, so I don't need to own a fleshlight (I have owned a couple several times in the past when I was single, but they didn't get much use). But it is better to go this route in the long run if you're single than jacking off to p0rn.

 

If u want to be sure, ask doctor to do blood sample to check testorone level, if the levels are ok, then it is not a health issue but in your head, u need to abstain from porn longer I suppose ?

 

Noticed this myself, you don't feel bad on nofap after having sex - in fact, you feel better and more energised! Real sex is completely different to fapping, it is an energy exchange between two human beings. Jacking off can't be compared.

Most of the serious semen retention guys I've spoke to are all single virgins anyway, and wouldn't understand.

 

damn, what a quote

 

For weak erection, you can take erection pills. If you want it natural, eat more fruits and vegetables to help improve blood flow over the body-including your penis.

 

Yes. For many, that is the point

 

I'm glad you caught this as I did. People should not brag about a IQ to an extent thus helping the community with it instead of bragging about a Ph or IQ.

 

Nice job having a genius IQ letting everyone know; each and everyone one of us has a different IQ of course were here to learn. Its not a bragging right on this forum... Honestly I'm getting sick of users bragging about their IQ or sex life like its something they have "above" us. I try and live each day with out sex or having a degree in something to the fullest. I'm just saying don't tell us and let us know from how your trying to help the community. You might have a degree but use it as something to help us out, not arrogant about it, be wise that you have it and put it to good use.

 

We're not calling you a crazy genius. Neither emotional or all of the above. You flashed our IQ ID card out there like it was something above us.

As I said before I'm trying nofap to live a happy and healthy life style. Sex comes in a precious way as well with having an IQ.

I'm not entirely bashing your adequate IQ level. I'm just saying be respectful in a way to help users with problems with it. Were all different and of course were not jealous of you. You earned your PhD the hard way and most of all I respect you for that. What I don't respect is you flashing it out like you have something above us, like I said.

Learn respect and respect the people on the forum trying to seek answers and help.

That is all.