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Attracting 10/10 and quality girls. 350 days no PMO streak

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by modern milarepa, Apr 16, 2021.

  1. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Counter: 350 days no PMO, semen retention

    These days I’ve encounter some girls and they have been interested in me, they even start the conversation. Most of them have really good energy, very beautiful, are 13-15 years younger than me, some never had or maybe 1-2 boyfriends, virgins.

    Also, I have declined going out this past month with some beautiful but kind of slutty girls. I declined them all. It was somewhat hard to do at the beginning considering my short past as a sex addict. Now saying no comes without effort is natural to me.

    Even two days ago a hot blonde, hot body sent me naked pictures of her saying she wanted to have sex with me. I talked to her like one time in tinder one year ago. I declined. I consider this an extreme good progress.

    I watched porn some days ago, to see what I felt. I felt nothing, not even arousal. I have dated girls like the ones in those videos. It looks so animalistic, empty and sad. No desires to PMO at all.

    I also got myself into tinder some days ago to see what this streak has done to me, because only when you confront temptation you can see how strong you are. The same story, attractive girls some wanted to date me. But I could not see myself long-term with them so I declined. Because if I go out with them, we’ll end up having sex and I´ll just break their hearts. I have come to the point of putting other people feelings first than my lust.

    I’m not a big fan about the semen retention god and the all life wishes are given because of long streaks but nonetheless long streaks have had an important impact in everything I do.

    I think this is due to the fact how semen retention and no PMO changes your energy and subsequently your mind. Your energy becomes clean and also your mind. That is why now I attract quality girls not just slutty girls, girls are intuitive and sense this.
     
  2. Where do you live lol?:eek:
    I am shifting to your city.:D
     
  3. HE^MAN

    HE^MAN Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Lol
     
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  4. Aléxandros

    Aléxandros Fapstronaut

    Do you consider yourself an handsome guy?
    How much beauty counted in all your sex encounters?
    Is it your attitude, along with NoFap, the reason why you got these girls?

    I am 18 now, with a past long streak, and I've only kissed two girls in my life (last summer, during NoFap), I never got a in a relationship and never had sex.

    Do you have some advices for me? Maybe I'll install Tinder again.
     
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  5. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    I think it is, I have control over my sexual energy. In a way I don't need women, I'm right now a sexually balanced person. I don't need a woman to give me sexual satisfaction, to balance me, emotional support or companionship.

    By not needing women, they love that, they come to you. Also if they come I enjoy and If they go I'm happy too.
     
  6. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    An advice will be go out, date, stop imaginary ideas of celibacy and attraction. Confront yourself with reality which is real life women

    By confronting yourself with reality you'll see what are you lacking. Whereas is your sexual energy, looks, money...
     
    Last edited: Apr 16, 2021
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  7. PeterGrip

    PeterGrip Fapstronaut

  8. Ive been seeing your progress at the 10% thread. Impressive. Could you elaborate on the journey to getting there? What were the key points/ techniques/ motivations to keep going and prevent relapse?

    How would you describe your mental state compared to your pmo-days?
     
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  9. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    The difference between my PMO days and today is basically I don't feel so scared anymore, I'm more fearless.

    How I did it?
    With tantric sex, meaning non ejaculatory sex in a monogamous loving relationship and doing tan tien meditation focusing in a point 4 fingers below the navel while doing meditation. Right now I just do meditation because I'm single the last 3 months.
    You cure a sex problem with sex or sex sublimation meditation. I don't know other way around it.
     
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  10. Hold the Line

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    It's good you're not simping for any available pussy, and declining a hot girl indeed can be a self challenge, but only proves your independance, and that just sex and fucking isn't the most important thing to you.
    I, myself also feel less demanding from a relationship than i was before NF, personality is more important to me now, if you asked me 2 years ago if i would got a super hot girlfriend but with bad attitude i would gladly say yes just give me the pussy, now it's different.
    I'm still not quite there that hot girls just start talking to me but i hope it will happen someday and i'll find a wonderful partner
     
  11. arkad1

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    You have not orgasmed in 350 days?
     
  12. freedomispossible

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    for everyone else that are wanting to quit PMO, please don't do this. this will just undo all the work and days you've done in quitting. fortunately for you it had no effect but i know for others it will be devastating. also congrats on the 350. it's very inspiring!
     
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  13. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Yeah bro this is a simp free area. No simping here. I'll prefer dying from pussy thirst before doing it haha
     
    Last edited: Apr 18, 2021
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  14. Aléxandros

    Aléxandros Fapstronaut

    you're the man!
    I got a lot, a lot of simp friends I know.
    They crave for pussy and would do anything for it, even losing their dignity.

    I personally chose not doing it.
    I no longer feel bad for a rejection, I personally try and talk to a lot of girl for a statistic reason and to train myself to get confident with girls (way different from what simps do).
    Then I understood I am feeling happy even without a girl in my life cause my life is stable and happy as it is.
    I train, I eat healthy, I study, I go out with friends, women are only a surplus, for me. (not maschilism, it should be like that even for girls, and yes, girls who are simps exist).

    I'll let you know how it goes with all these hookups I'm entartaining.
    I'm doing this for getting out of my comfort zone and finally reach a stable sexual life.

    I'm also improving my IG account, so that I can be seen by girls of my age and location.
    It's better than Tinder imo, cause you can have a wide portfolio of yourself and you are not beaten by stupid algorithms based on payments.

    Peace!
     
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  15. arkad1

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    You have not ejaculated for 350 days, and u say you're not a fan of semen retention?
     
  16. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    A big fan for sure but not as many incel kids see it here, as a chick magnet and an all fullfiling wish magic formula. If you read the entire phrase I make that very clear
     
  17. arkad1

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    Semen retention as an all fullfilling wish magic formula?
    Explain that, u mean that retaining semen you can realize every wish? Or what else do you mean?
     
  18. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    I don't say it, many kids believe this. It's a lie that retaining semen you can realize every wish.
     
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  19. arkad1

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    yep, sure it's a lie.
     
  20. Hopkins

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    So, basically what you're saying is that you've had a loving relationship and tantric sex fucked it up xD :emoji_clap:
     

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