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Anyone ever get cured from trans/transwoman porn addiction?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by SeekingLife, Apr 18, 2021.

  1. SeekingLife

    SeekingLife Fapstronaut

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    Been dealing with this for over 5 years now.

    60 days was my highest streak ever but i keep relapsing to transwoman porn.

    For anyone out there that has experience with this, does the urge ever go away?

    or should i just accept that this is a fetish i will always have and will always have to fight...

    i know i’d never actually fuck a transwoman in real life. It’s all fantasy. That’s the only reason i jack off to it.

    when i had my long streaks, my attraction for real women would come back. But again, somedays i just get stressed and say fuck it and PMO to the most extreme dopamine producing medium i can think of: transwoman porn.
     
  2. SeekingLife

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    I also feel like it could be trauma.

    my entire childhood/high school life i literally got zero action from women.

    and so i think i always resorted to this type of porn as my safe haven and distancing myself from my reality.
     
  3. freelance

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    brother just keep going in life if you relapsed dont feel to bad keep on going porn is really bad regardless what you watch dont give up exercise meditate take cold showers urges will go away
     
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  4. SeekingLife

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    i’m always going to keep trying, but sometimes i think what am i even trying to do? Fix something that could actually be a part of my sexual attraction?

    transwoman porn has confused me in so many ways. Even though i said i’d never fuck one, i just don’t know why i get such an insane rush when i see an extremely feminine woman with a penis. My mind is just like “how the fuck is this even a guy?!” And that’s what i end up jacking off to.
     
  5. freelance

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    I know porn addictive weather its transwoman porn evreyone has his own struggles but you eventually pay the price if you keep presuing this your life will be better without porn you need more dicipline
     
  6. arkad1

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    I didn't.

    I stayed away from porn for 14 months, and when i got back to it, i watched transwoman almost the first time i watched it...
    I don't think this is about curing a certain type of porn, it's about cutting off any kind of porn...
     
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  7. eagle rising

    eagle rising Fapstronaut

    Well, I don't think you should look at it as an ailment or something to be cured. I remember I was getting to that point of watching transwomen in porn, but I just locked it out. Don't know how I did it, but it happened. I think I just thought it was "too crazy". But, if I kept going I am certain that I would have eventually caved.

    As far as being "cured", I don't think that's an efficient way to look at it. I think a better way is to look forward to "normalizing" yourself, that is just recovery from the need to watch P, and just see where your mind is at that point. However, if you started start right away with transwoman porn then I don't know that that is something you can deny. I am not suggesting P is okay. I am just saying there is a part of you that finds that intriguing, and there is nothing inherently wrong with that. But, if it progressed to that point because of increased tolerance, such as with other addictions (cocaine addicts needing more and more, for instance), then you will certainly "normalize" yourself once you are recovered. I am implicitly asking, how could it be any other way?
     
  8. Yeah man I used to have similar thoughts about this kind of porn, and I was very insecure about liking "transwomen." But now... well cis women are overrated as fuck hahahah.

    I don't think it really matters what you or I or anyone else jerks off to - what's important is that we learn to control our impulses.

    Also fyi, trans women ARE real women.

    Good luck to you.
     
  9. muiezeu

    muiezeu New Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, bro I used to have this fetish exclusively years, ago. It's just porn conditioning, you will either move to some other novelty or rewire to reality.
     
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  10. If the society would accept transwomen and transgendered person, would you reconsidered all of this post?

    If all of your friends are cool to watch transwomen porn your behavior would be the same?

    I ask to you but it's even an question for me. I always find that transwomen are hot af.

    I mean that maybe it's not a problem, but it's our perspection problem. I think transwomen are beautiful, and they are, but have a girlfriend that has a penis, no thank you.

    Now my aim is to restart to nofap myself from every type of porn, and enjoy my life with my actually girlfriend.

    If I stop porn, in addition to all thousand benefit I'll accomplish, I can figure it out if I like transwomen even in reality.

    In your post I feel that you accuse yourself because you like something... it's not fair to yourself for my opionion.

    By the way, we are on the same boat my friend.
     
  11. Correct
     
  12. Those kind of porn are more dangerous than the amateur ones. Your brain take a bigger shock and drop insane dopamine when you relapse to one. Also It will take you more time to be cured compared to normal P.
     
  13. Vrs

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    I believe its mostly due to having sex with your own penis (while fapping). You get used to it, it's safe, you know how to get you off and no anxiety during is involved. You also actually like girls. So its easier just to get rid of the other guy (actor from porn) and have a girl that has something you mostly connect to the sex experience (which is a dick).
    Reboot, find a girl that you are good to and who is good to you and start having fun together (slowly if you have to).
    Peace!
     
    Last edited: Oct 21, 2021
  14. Legacy of Lost Soul

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    Not sure it was my addiction but I definitely escalated to trans and transwoman. Im close to 5 years of NoFap and I completely forgot it existed until I saw your topic name. So that means yes, I got cured of that. And all other forms of P. At least currently, nothing is definitive, I can just do my best to keep it this way for ever.
     
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  15. Chahal22

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    Any tip for me to get cured from trans
     
  16. Legacy of Lost Soul

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    Yes, dont watch it for some years. Forget P.
     
  17. Chahal22

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    So you dont like trans anymore man ?
    Is it was difficult for you at start and now you don’t like those stuff?
    Thanks
     
  18. hewm

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    People get all sorts of weird fetishes like literally eating shit and other repulsive things. Porn fetishes become increasingly extreme.
    Something you used to find unacceptable becomes your stimulus. Lots of messed up stuff on the net.

    I think the nofap detox can help. I don't know how long you would need to go. Maybe 6 months, 1 year? Idk It depends on how severe the damage is. But I'm no expert

    Hear it from our fapstronaut bro Legacy of Lost Soul
     
  19. backtolife42

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    Accept it as part of you, and instead of trying to force it away, maybe try figuring out why you are attracted to this. Maybe it is because it is the „forbidden fruit“, maybe porn has led to you associating pleasure with dicks, maybe you just have some natural bisexual tendencies.
    I used to watch lots of transwoman porn, got deep into the rabbithole of it all. Due to meditation it has become a lot better. Not because i force myself to stay away from this particular kind of porn, but because i actually started noticing, when something isnt good for me. When i relapse, i often notice, that i dont really feel like watching this stuff anymore.
     
  20. Quezatolah

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    The mind of an addict is clouded by so many illusions. For starters there is no such thing as a trans or transwoman, you are either a man or a woman.

    The better you get at seeing reality for what it is, the quicker you're going to be free from this.
     

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