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force heartbreak depression and pain

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Selix, Sep 18, 2020.

  1. Sep 18, 2020 #1
    Selix

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    hi guys

    I fell in love with the wrong woman for almost over a year, but I couldnt make a move and misinterpreted her signals so I just lost a year with her but I dont care anymore because I just found out that she went on vacation alone with her ex or on off boyfriend for the 2nd time during that year ( yes the first one I just found out recently too).

    now I dont care if she is back with him or not and I want to move on but somehow my brain (I'm) is still holding on to hope and the fantasies.

    now I just want to get over that uneccessary shock and avoiding phase and tackle the heartcrack, broken heart and depression phase.

    how can I force it?
     
    Selix, Sep 18, 2020
    Selix, Sep 18, 2020
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  2. Sep 19, 2020 #2
    StevenMorrison

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    Dude, you just need a distraction. Tell yourself honestly what you really want, good luck:3
     
    StevenMorrison, Sep 19, 2020
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  3. Apr 22, 2021 #3
    bobnajera

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    The best way to deal with it is to go to the gym or practice any other sport you like.
     
    bobnajera, Apr 22, 2021
    bobnajera, Apr 22, 2021
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  4. Apr 22, 2021 #4
    brassknucks

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    Cut off all contact, social media, and get into hobbies or talking to other girls.
     
    brassknucks, Apr 22, 2021
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  5. Apr 23, 2021 #5
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    Do you even care if she is happy?
     
    Deleted Account, Apr 23, 2021
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  6. Apr 24, 2021 #6
    Selix

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    this was half a year ago... I learned my lesson and I'm fine now

    I dont care at all if she is happy.... who needs to be happy is me and nobody else... I dont get you message....
     
    Selix, Apr 24, 2021
    Selix, Apr 24, 2021
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  7. Apr 25, 2021 #7
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    I didn’t realize this thread was that old. Glad you’ve moved on. Do you really believe that nobody else needs to be happy?
     
    Deleted Account, Apr 25, 2021
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