Accountability for All

Yes sure you get it my man
Beware of the vulnerability trap because its allowed for a few times then you overdo it and you are asking to be saved...She ain't mommy

 

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Hahaha , she ain't mommy. That's true.

 

Or even better show vulnerability through action and not words

Demonstrate do not explain

I am just redpilled not have all figured out bro...haha

 

@Bold_Prawn you're NOT disgusting always remember that. You were actually pretty true about yourself and your problems but it doesn't mean you're less worth than anybody else. It took me about a week to tell the guys on this thread, including you, that I chain relapsed a few weeks ago. To be honest shows your strength and that you're not as afraid as most people to look into the mirror and see your imperfections and actually share them with people you trust. Bro give me a cut of that strength it's an important one and I think you're ahead of me and maybe even ahead of some other great guys on this thread in that point. I have the same voice in my head and I know how it feels when you relapse just because of that voice. What could help is to work on your self-estem, that's how I were able to cut it off for the most time. Look at what you've already acomplished and keep in mind that YOU achieved it bro, no one else but you. So keep your head up and get something done you know you can achieve and celebrate the succses PM me if you feel low bro I'll be there for you

 

Day 5 in the books!

 

Glad u raised this point. Yeah this is important piece of puzzle , self esteem . Dont let it down even if you relapse countless times . Just keep working on it. U will improve ur streak. But once u start feeling guilty , u r in a downward spiral . we have this part of our brain which wants dopamine from sexual stuff. its just like that, and we have overused it , so its hard to do anything else . dont beat urself over it and it has subverted our will power . it doesnt say anything about your character though . nothing like we r loser or something. better is to admit that u r a addict and this is part of you and its not the whole of u . u r much more capable then this . i have relpased countless times but i have stopped feeling guilty . i m like yeah that happened . lets see if i can improve. its just an bad habit , treat it like that only .

 

you decided to be honest. you chose the right thing.
and yes, getting off reddit is the best thing you can do imo. even ive relapsed many times because of it.

its okay man, you made a mistake, do not repeat it. and 7 days is better than half the nofappers out there, good going!
"dont be sorry, be better"

damn true!



and as for me, i couldnt do the dopamine detox lol. its just too difficult.
but doing good on nofap!

 

still 0 im gonna find more porn blockers o i cant use it even if i want

 

Canada

 

Day 6 in the books!

 

Couldn't make it to day 17 guys. I have activated p blocker for next 30 days. Trying this for the first time(I mean I previously activated it as per my control.) . When the flatline hits you , you don't realise what u r doing . So hopefully I will increase my streak this time . As long as I have possible solutions in hand I am good. Let's go guys. 0/30.

 

https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?forums/accountability-partners.7/
Please check out this link and guys if anybody is from the same time zone please help him.

 

Maybe this can help you .
https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...ve-your-willpower-an-aid-easy-streaks.272658/

 

Ok I am joining this thing

 

Hello today was nofap day 5 and it was really nice today I was very much focused on my work and dedicated my most of the time on my work and study. But still need to improve my concentration and intelligent which get worsened due this addiction.

 

Appreciate the support! I guess I was feeling overly despondent after that relapse. Sometimes I think it's not just that we recognize we messed up after a relapse, but that it's daunting to remember how enthusiastic we were about nofap and being productive before the relapse and are apprehensive we won't measure up to that person again. You say, "that was the strongest person I've been, and he fell. What chance have I got?" That we choose to go on from there and become even stronger is laudable.

You guys are amazing. Can't believe I didn't find this place earlier.

 

Focus your attention on the link between you and your death, without remorse or sadness or worrying. Focus your attention on the fact you don't have time and let your acts flow accordingly. Let each of your acts be your last battle on earth. Only under those conditions will your acts have their rightful power. Otherwise they will be, for as long as you live, the acts of a timid man." "IS IT SO TERRIBLE TO BE A TIMID MAN?"

My motivation

 

First post in this thread. First post in these forums. Let's get it.

Been trying so hard but I just cant make progress without proper accountability.
Did nothing all day and relapsed. Now im working out and making sure I stay on top of my daily tasks. Fresh new start with the help of this thread