Considering a sheduled MO after a full reboot

For me, that is a bad idea. thing is, if you do MO, you will eventually crave for porn because that was your fix. i got addicted to porn years after i got addicted to MO. while i was MOing, i used to find porn so disgusting(like once i saw a video and turned it off within 2 seconds because of how revolting it was) but eventually and slowly I added P to my MO and the stuff i found disgusting became normal. if you do manage to escape(or you are planning to escape) then leave M behind too(only have O when having intercourse with your partner)

 

i think it´s a bad move bro. for a number of reasons:

1 - control. the link between porn and masturbation is deeply rooted in us, addicts, so if you sparkle one side of the equation, the other will soon appear. you´ll find that your "fixed schedule" will suffer changes for smaller and smaller intervals.

2 - behaviour. for us, addicts, who masturbated to infinite sources of fantasies, masturbating with physical contact is a totally different experience, a dry and grey one. you´ll be deeply tempted to add some mental fantasy to the procedure. once fantasy kicks in, it´s game over.

3 - consequences. masturbation heavely drains the body of vitality. it´s not a good behaviour at all.

4 - pragmatism. any kind of sexual pressure that you´ll feel, will eventually be released through a wet dream. no need to masturbate for that reason.

5 - counter-intuitive. if you add to your rebooting goal the "masturbation fixed schedule", it will be much harder to do the reboot because masturbation will still be in the horizont.

in sum, don´t do it and don´t plan it . If you´re single, keep your seed and transmute it into power and creativity.

 

I've done what you plan to do so many times. Slipped into PMO every. single. time.

 

I mean in principle the idea sounds good, but it seems risky like riding on the edge. I hear that some people are able to handle it. But it just seems like such a big risk after all the work you do to get clean in the first place

 

So I do that with alcohol, after quitting drinking, bear in mind the schedule is twice a year, after a full year clean.

You are allowing yourself to come back to compulsiveness getting a schedule after a full reboot, sounds more like an excuse than a realistic, Fapstronaut schedule, that may look like, if anything like twice a year if single, none if having a partner.

I have this saying, that goes like, twice a year is not big deal, anything more than that is risky for most compulsive behaviours.

 

What is full reboot again?
Imho, full reboot is to living a life where we completely abstain from PMO, and ejaculate only when we do love making.

 

Great. Me too.

Worth trying.

Why not for pleasure? I don't get that. Masturbation can be sex with someone you love: you! And it's a way to explore your authentic sexual fantasies, if you can rescue them back from memories of porn.

The only way to know is to try. If you find that MO makes abstaining from porn much harder (that's what I found) then at least you will have learnt something about yourself and you can stop masturbating.

What day are you on now, and what day are you going to consider yourself sufficiently recovered to try your plan?