Criteria? Here's Mine

• Some people abstain from sex, or practice abstinence. Are you?

No. I haven't had a partner in over 2 years. I moved, because of circumstances, to a very small town a few years ago where there are almost no single women. They just don't exist. It sucks but I'm already scouting out new places to live where there is civilization, job opportunities and whatnot. It's been a fuck of a few years.

I could have sex if I wanted to with (this one or that one) but at this point it has to be meaningful, with a person I want a relationship with. I don't want sex unless it's going to be ferocious, meaning all-encompassing, body, mind and soul. Otherwise, ya might just as well fappola!

• Some people abstain from porn, are you?

Since I do not have any interest in porn, no, I don't abstain or not abstain. I think I have maybe watched 5 minutes of people fucking in my whole life. It just doesn't interest me. I went to an orgy once and...doesn't do it for me.

What led me here was an addiction to looking at a certain type of woman, either photos or videos, and...

• Some people abstain from masturbation, are you?

Yes.

• Some people abstain from orgasm altogether, are you?

Yes. Once every 30 days, I've decided, I shall relieve myself, but not while staring at a screen - on my back, on the bed, gentle-like. And then back to business.

• Some people abstain from all forms of artificial sexual media, such as tv shows, are you?

Haha, I've never seen a TV show where anyone was sexually attractive enough to me that it disturbed my sleep.

• Some people abstain from risky sexual encounters, such as anonymous sex, are you?

Not an issue for me, so, no.

• Some people abstain from their problematic sex worker/prostitution visits, are you?

See above. I did pay $10 on OnlyFans recently to talk to one webmodel I've had an on-off relationship IRL with for 6 years, but when the subscription runs out, I won't renew, and there wasn't any masturbation on my end. A slight tingle but that's it.

• Some people add other behaviors that are beneficial, such as exercise, are you?

I like my daily gratitude lists, written out on an 8.5 x 11 paper, in ink. But I think I was doing that before I started NoFap.