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Needing some urgent help

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by JustAnEmoGuy, May 10, 2021.

  1. JustAnEmoGuy

    JustAnEmoGuy Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys, i am 21 and completely destroyed. I can't even remember how long i've been addicted to porn. I just broke up with my ex (i broke up with her) and i am trying to move on.
    I tried NoFap so many times but every time something goes wrong in my life and i can't get heal myself. I am now in a 7 days streak but in a heavy selfsteem crysis thinking that "nothing i do will ever heal me from the PIED". I've already been talking to some girls and became very close to some of them. The interest is mutual, and we are surely going to have sex but my mind is destroying me. I cannot even do my responsabilities because i am thinking about my sexual problems, how i feel so miserable and ashamed of myself. I am really trying to trust the process but is getting so fucking hard that i am thinking about giving up.
     
  2. You gotta get your shit straight, dude. You've got every problem running into the others, they're criss-crossing so much you can't focus. You know what you need to do, you need to commit to NoFap, you need to set that priority. Set the other things aside, set the girls aside, set the sex aside. You can circle back to that once you heal and rewire. Gotta do the time, my friend. There's no easy way out. Make it your cause. Once you have that decided in your heart and mind, you can start taking care of the other responsibilities in your life. But you have to decide that you are going to do this, you have to already know you aren't going to give up even before you start. This process will kick the shit out of you, anything worth while always does. You gotta stand firm with your arms in the air and say, "Here I am, kick the shit out of me! I can take it and I will come out the other end!" Don't feel sorry for yourself and say you can't do it. Instead, get pissed and don't back down!
     
  3. Different Built

    Different Built Fapstronaut

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    At least you’re on a streak now. I would give it 30-90 days and just focus on self improvement and then maybe get girls from there
     
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