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I think I'm attracted to fat women, please help!

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, May 14, 2021.

  1. I have no or why this started but lately I have been getting turned by fat women [I did not get this from watching porn for your information.] But lately I notice myself fantasizing about fat women as well and not just sexually, I had a dream last night where a fat woman was holding a baby and she said "I'm so happy honey! You are the best husband a woman could have!" I think this is a fetish, very similar to my foot fetish, but like my fetish for women's feet I feel degraded by wanting to indulge in this, I'm a very lanky guy who takes care of his body but yet I want a fat woman who is heavy and doesn't really take care of herself, I am also interested in converting to Roman-Catholicism and most fat women tend to be very secular and atheist, and I think it's important that I have a Catholic wife. Please let me know what I should do, I just want my attraction to fat women to go away.
     
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  2. Revanthegrey

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    I don't see nothing bad in what your likes, is normal in opinion.
     
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  3. But how is it normal? I honestly don't think it is, what I'm into is an extreme turn-off for most normal men, especially if they are religious.
     
  4. Change5454

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    Nothing wrong with liking big women. And the religious aspect you mentioned, well there are big people of all religious beliefs (obviously) so try not to over think things.
     
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  5. phwrancesco

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    What's wrong with that?
     
  6. Pizzer

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    Depends on your definition of "fat".

    There's nothing wrong with a woman that carries a bit of pudge around, I'd argue women that do are far sexier than women that are thin, no offense to women that do go that extra mile to stay thin, but its rarely sustainable.

    Its also more natural for women to carry extra weight, they are baby makers after all.

    Forget what you think you should be attracted to, we're often pressured to find the perfect woman due to how society tells them how they should look, its all fake.

    Besides, its just more to hold onto at night.
     
  7. Rents77

    Rents77 Fapstronaut

    How did that song go? "I like big butts and I cannot lie" <3

    Stop shaming yourself for something that's natural - definitely take in mind the points that @Pizzer made. One girl at work which I like is a bit chubby, but man, the things I dream of doing to her!
     
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  8. eagle rising

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    I am curious as to why you think a woman holding a baby is a "fetish". That is way too big of a stretch.

    Calm down, it's okay.
     
  9. You don't think it's weird that someone who is sk
    It's not dude I just want to start a family, the fetish part of that is the fact the woman was fat.
     
  10. brassknucks

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  11. What do you mean?
     
  12. SickSicko

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    Bit chubby is not FAT
    It's not normal, but is ok OP.
     
  13. People come in many different shapes and forms. It is okay to be attracted to one kind of form over another. Nothing wrong with it. There's no need to get worked up or obsessive about this. It's the same kind of thing as being attracted to brunettes, or people with green eyes.
     
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  14. UncleBarnacle

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    I have been given gifts most men don't get in their whole lives. I have also dealt with some tragedies that left me racked with grief, regret, feelings of self-loathing and trauma. Won't list them here. But some shrinks have said "You have more stuff on your plate than a lot of people." Of course, I've never lived in a warzone or had cancer. Etc.

    But one of the great joys of my life has been sharing it with BBW and SSBBW. Not only taking them to bed, but seeing them out there in the world. I know "it's not healthy." But there it is...and there they are, at the store, on the street, at the coffeeshop, at the mall, in the park, on my street, all over America and other parts of the world, depending on where you are talking about.

    I have dated the tiny, the petite, the size 0, the dancers and actresses (I am from NYC, where they are all over the place) and they have their charms, of course. You can pick them up and carry them into the bedroom. You can put them over your shoulder.

    But I need a woman who is round and ripe and plump and who makes the dishes in the cabinet rattle when she walks by, someone with fluff and size and weight and little chubby fingers I can hold in the car, or walking down the street. And if you think getting off to photos and videos of fat women is electric, try taking one to bed. You may stay there for 48 hours, and you may give up this frankly odd obsession with "curing" yourself.

    That said, I feel sorry for any fat woman you get involved with if you have this much energy about it. I really don't see the big deal, but it's a free country. (Assuming you don't live in Saudi Arabia or China.)
     
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  15. TimeToQuitNow

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    Most guys don't like fat women so I'm sure they'd be happy to hear this. They need love too
     
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  16. UncleBarnacle

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    "most fat women tend to be very secular and atheist"

    That's a nice little piece of ignorance. Have you polled them?
     
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  17. I see you got a sickness for the thickness
    honestly same
     
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  18. brassknucks

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    I too have had all the skinny princesses, highly overrated.
     
  19. UncleBarnacle

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    YES! My God...and high maintenance. And when a person goes through life as a fat person, they are often way more sensitive, and less quick to judge others.
     
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