Have I been shittested, y or n?

So last week a gf (were not together) invites me for dinner at her place.
We set the date for this week wednesday.

Comes wednesday, one hour before I was supposed to arrive at her place, she writes me this message: "my parents will be here too, i hope thats ok for you."

I was upset and angry. I wrote her, I had imagined our date differently, and that either she had to cancel on me or her parents.

She called me, apologized, said it was a bad joke, and asked if I still wanted to come.

I was still around in that part of the country so I said yes I come. I didn't feel like it at all though. On my way to her, i was just angry and upset and part of me wanted to never see that woman again. I told her she should never do this again, and she promised.

One day later, I ask myself whether it was all just a shittest or not. Yesterday, when I read her message, I believed her that she actually invited her parents over.

Anyway, Id be curious to hear other opinions

 

I dont see how I "failed". i was looking forward to the date, and then drama got introduced into it by her. i stated my intentions, and she apologized. my goal is not to just have sex with a girl at any cost. if that would be my goal, i have failed yes, but it is not my goal. i understand what it means to be stoic, but im still human, and if i look forward to something, i have emotions, and if that is somehow cancelled, i have emotions too. being stoic doesnt mean to not have emotions, but to properly master ones emotions. if i had written her what a bitch she was, that would be a bad emotional reaction. but i did none of that. i just stated what we have agreed to, and that i didnt like to be treated like that. looking back, i wouldnt act differently. i could have seen it as a bluff, and say i could bring my coworker too and if that would be ok for her. i could have done that, if i had seen the shit test. but if had seen the shit test, i wouldnt have done that, because i dont like such a shit test. it was a total turn off for me. i dont like to be with someone who doesnt value me or my time.

anyways, i talked to her about it today and what she was thinking and that i thought it was a shit test. she then wrote me a lengthy response that it was true, it was a shit test, she wanted to see my response. she apologized multiple times, said she didnt know that it would upset me, asked for forgiveness, yadayadayada.

at this point i dont know whether i should forgive her or not. i dont like girls who are manipulative. but if the red pill is true, all girls are the same.

i wouldnt mind shit tests like "i bet you say that to every girl". but this is just bluntly deceptive and mean. i dont see how shit tests are ok in any settings at all. just because modern western women do it frequently, doesnt mean its ok. throughout history, and also today in other cultures, women wouldnt be allowed in such a way. its just in the western hemisphere that women are allowed to do anything they like and get away with it, just like the holy apes of berabes, who too could do what they liked and men werent allowed to punish them.

maybe i exaggerate, i dont know. im just upset. i thought she was nice and different. but she is not. just like the rest.

 

Guys thank you for your responses

i don’t see why you say I reacted to emotional... we set the Date up between the two of us, and shortly before she changed the plans..

i actually had seen her parents before. Before I even met her, I was invited by her parents for dinner as I just moved to the place.. I liked her parents, and I guess they liked me..

it’s all about the timing of her shittest and the shittest itself..

she told me today she had just wanted to see my reaction and she had just wanted to see my reaction..

she wrote me a ducking long message apologizing several times and hoping we could still be together...

i don’t know what you see what i did wrong

At this points it’s just about me whether I give her another shot...

 

i didnt get angry at possibility of meeting her parents, but at getting my plans changed ...

ok.. i got an apology, i will be calm now and see what happens

 

yea, i get it now. judging by the fact that we made out yesterday and she wrote me that she loved me, i got away pretty good i think i understand girls better now. wicked creatures they are

i think part of why i overreacted was because i was not on my purpose, or mission. i was thinking too much about her, making her my purpose. that will all change now.

edit: thank you @MeTP and all who contributed to my thread. you all contributed to my success and growth!