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What about social anxiety?

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Flyman66666, May 20, 2021.

  1. Flyman66666

    Flyman66666 Fapstronaut

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    I have severe social anxiety. And i think it is from porn and masturbation. Now i am on my 50+ day streak. Still have anxiety, but not same as before.
    I think it takes time. Because, i watched porn for 5 years.

    Do you guys still have social anxiety after quitting porn and masturbation?
     
  2. I don't think my experience would be the same as yours since I didn't have severe social anxiety to start with, and I think what happens after quitting a while is more a matter of social and communication skill if anything.

    I don't know, but I think because people are so cooped up from sheltering in place anything you might attend in person now people might be a little bit more open or... just kind of glad to have someone to talk to face to face I guess, though it can depend. But my guess is they're not going to care as much and it's just cool to have actual people for the most part and not online stuff which makes it a better time than normal, so you may not have to worry about it as much.
     
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  3. Albert15

    Albert15 New Fapstronaut

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    I don’t care if I have to interact with someone but even if I just remember their face from grocery store a month ago I start hyperventilating. It’s not that I even care what they think of me, I’m just terrified of them now. If I don’t make friends with someone immediately I’ll fear them for the rest of my life.
     
  4. Aléxandros

    Aléxandros Fapstronaut

    It will go away, as it is written in "Your Brain On Porn".
    I truly recommend it to you.
    It explains a lot of things about porn consequences and rebooting.
     
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  5. Flyman66666

    Flyman66666 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you so much man for replying.
     
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  6. Eli6899

    Eli6899 Fapstronaut

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    Alexandros's comment is for sure a good one

    As for me, I still struggle with social anxiety, though since I started nofap it turned quite mild, and more specific to girls im not familiar with rather then literally every stranger I meet.

    I can relate to your case of the more extreme anxiety, been there for sure, but quitting pmo is just a head start, and a biological mechanism, exposure therapy is clearly the way to go when it comes to social anxiety, I cant think of any other solution
     
  7. Metis07

    Metis07 Fapstronaut

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    1.Exposure therapy (when ready, by doing #2 and #3, and little by little).
    2.Mindfulness (special exercises, meditation, sports, any activity that takes all of your attention, cold showers, No PMO, no excessive daydreaming).
    3.Visit a therapist and/or try to get to the root of the problem yourself (+self-help books).
     
  8. Deysonn

    Deysonn Fapstronaut

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    I still have some anxiety, but this improves as time passes. I do not think covid helps. I find it is good to get out and be social. It really helps with your recovery. Very often as a PMO addict you spent so much time locked away alone that you become socially awkward. This only makes your social anxiety worst, you are just not accustomed to being with people.
     

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