Why I am here.

Welcome to NoFap, now although I love this site, I use it as a tool alongside my programme of recovery through Sex Addicts Anonymous. I can't tell you what to do, but it sounds to me like you could really use SAA and it could be a programme to help you. https://saa-recovery.org/ here is the website, you will find literature and meetings on there, hopefully there will be a meeting in your area, if not there are some telemeetings and zoom meetings, but face to face is great. It gives you a chance to meet people with the same issue from all different walks of life, a fellowship of folk ready to assist you working through the 12 Steps. Check it out as I believe it would be veeeeeery beneficial to someone in your position. Attend a meeting, see how it goes, at the end of the day it won't kill you sand you may find a place for yuorself and a place to help you and you partner.

I hope this helps, if you want any more information just drop me a message!

 

You have a strong reason to do Nofap, so stick with it! If you want to relapse, just remember the reason!

Also, pornblockers are our saviour.

 

Thank you for sharing your story cactus! I would definitely like to echo what someone else said. I have been going to SAA for over 2 years and it has been one of the biggest reasons why Ive stayed and progressed in my recovery from pornography, escorts, infidelity.
If you're interested the local group that I go to is currently doing zoom temporarily until covid calms down in our area. If youre interested in seeing what it's like. Feel free to drop me a message !

 

I would echo what Uncle Iroh and Chefb87 commented about SAA. I joined one in January and it has been very beneficial to me. There is something very powerful about talking out loud about your sex addiction with other human beings who have journeyed on the same road. Have made a connection with a few of the guys outside of the meeting and can call each other as needed. My group meets on Zoom also and it has worked well.

 

I would encourage you to have the light on and look at your wife when you orgasm. Your brain needs to reattach to her when all those chemicals from your sexual release flood it, and away from porn images or other casual sex partners. And the emotional connection you’re rebuilding with her will help you get to recovery.