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Addicted to fetish porn progress

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by adiums, May 15, 2021.

  1. May 15, 2021 #1
    adiums

    adiums Fapstronaut

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    Hey everyone,

    I thought I'd post an update on where I'm at with my addiction to my fetish.

    I'm currently seeing a girl, she's awesome. We're Christians so we are saving sex until marriage. Since I've met this new girl, I've abstained from my fetish porn with the hope I get aroused by this girl I'm dating. I can say that things are moving in the right direction the longer I stop looking at fetish porn. I get a hard on even just hugging her. When I kiss her I'm 100%. It's fantastic and it's a sign of progress. Just for some context, I've never been interested in vanilla porn, never watched it and watching two people on a screen having sex doesn't appeal to me at all. As a result, I was afraid I was asexual as I could only get aroused by my fetish. It feel great to actually feel arousal next to a girl I'm romantically attracted to.

    My next step is to cut my fetish porn for 90 days. While I can get hard, I'm worried I can't orgasm to vanilla thoughts with this girl. I'm hoping that's the next step. I know it's wrong, but when I fantasize about kissing her, making out etc... I can get hard (which I couldn't do before), I'm just yet to reach orgasm. Is it possible to be able to orgasm to intimacy with her the longer I abstain from fetish porn?
     
    adiums, May 15, 2021
    adiums, May 15, 2021
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  2. May 16, 2021 #2
    Superfighter

    Superfighter Fapstronaut

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    Bro I hear you out .I have a similar problem the only way from what I have been reading this past years is that the only way to get over all this problems is to do a full 90 day reboot no edging no looking at porn I am currently on day 0
     
    Superfighter, May 16, 2021
    Superfighter, May 16, 2021
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  3. May 16, 2021 #3
    alexandrebois

    alexandrebois Fapstronaut

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    90 Days "MONK mode" and you'll be free for ever.

    It should be "MONK" mode

    If you're not doing the MONK mode, you're doing nothing

    Rules:
    1) No Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm
    2) No Pervert stuff
    3) No instagram , bikini stuffs,
    4) Don't watch anything sexual
    5) No sexual thoughts
    6) No edging
    7) if you see bikini girls, or anything you start the counter to 0.
    8) no chasing girls
    9) eat healty, gym, cold showering, multi vitamins, Spirulina and you're good


    More:
    https://rebelliousdevelopment.com/monk-mode/
     
    Last edited: May 16, 2021
    alexandrebois, May 16, 2021
    alexandrebois, May 16, 2021
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  4. Jun 12, 2021 #4
    Surfguy

    Surfguy Fapstronaut

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    No bikini girls? That's rough bro.
     
    Surfguy, Jun 12, 2021
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