Muslim fapstronauts

This thread looks interesting, I guess I'll tag along. Salaam everyone.

 

It's getting a little bit tight for me ... I'm kinda beginning to become scared a bit because I had some crazy thoughts, don't want to lose controle again

 

Salam..I want to get married in 13 months. If I'd stop PMO will I be able to perform and have normal intercourse with my wife? Or will I have PE. I've been PMO for about 8 years.

 

As a muslim you have no choice whether you want to watch PMO or not. There is no question. You MUSTN'T do that. Especially during a marriage. It's against all rules of the Islam my brother. Try to quit. No matter how long you watched it before. I tried for over one year to quit. I tried and tried and tried and relapsed over 1000 times (estimated) but brother I tried so often until I finally managed almost 60 days. Every single one of you can do this.

Brother, quit and enjoy the beauty of marriage. Be a human.

And for all of you who felt. Don't give up. One relapse is always one step forward. But only if you regret and learn from it.

This video always helps me when I'm down.

 

Asalam brother,

thank you for your kindest words. May Allah make the life easy for you. May he make you of the succesful and of the wise and strong people, who never give up and keep being strong. May he guide you to the gardens of paradise by let you follow his lights. May he make you stronger and let no one of you fall back. I'm not a role model for any one of you. No one is your role model! The only example of ours are the prophets may peace be upon them all. We are all fighters and we all fight together in these days of war against tempation, racism, hate, wealth, traitor and egoism. We have to stay side by side and we MUSTN'T stop!

How I managed this duration ? Alhamdulila. Only Allah knows. I don't know. When Allah wants you do reach a point, then you will reach it. And his guidance is truly the best. I relapsed a lot of times my brother, I failed a lot of times and neglected my faith a lot of times. I am not a role model neither more succesful than any of you.

As soon as you give your hearth to Allah you will see a part of the truth and you start to follow it. You start to follow the light of Allah, your creator and you will not see anything else anymore.

And I don't know what is in the future. Maybe I relapse today, tomorrow oder in 2 or 3 days.

But we have to keep fighting. We have to pray 5 times a day and we have to read the Quran and we have to think of Allah every single second. This is what makes the way of Allah easier for us to go.

Never give up my brother. Never stop fighting and believing in your self my brother. We are all together, although we are not together for real, we have the same problem and we are Muslims and may Allah assemble us on the day of judgement with the believers and with our families.

Asalam

 

Salam brothers,

I lost. I had no feelings I just did it without thinking. I abashed my family and my faith and Allah. I forgot everything. I was weak and after I did it I was feeling like nothing and I was down and not able to stand up again. Taqwaman I said I know how it feels when you relapse but tonight I realized you can't understand it, you have to feel it to understand and today I did.

I did a very stupid mistake. Allah guided me so long but today I fell by my own hands. I am lost without Allah. I am nothing without Allah. He created me and he is the almighty lord. And I don't see it. I am too stupid. I don't feel anything anymore. One part of me is heartless, the other one wants to cry.

I could not make the time undo. I was standing there and with a big shame. May Allah forgive us for every bad deed. I knew that this would happen but because of my stupidity I did it though.

But now I think I have to make the best out of it. I will start again. I still don't believe what happened. I still don't believe ...

My brothers don't make the same mistake I did. Don't stay awake at night when you have any computer or mobile beside of you. Don't go near it. Don't think about it. Sleep, just sleep or go outside. Don't do the same mistake I did. In the moment you will feel unable to do it. But it is possible only very hard but if you are strong enough you will do it. I was not strong enough.

Asalam u aleykum

 

Wow brother thank you for your encouraging reply. I really appreciate this and after watching these two videos I felt awesome. I will stand up again and I will climb the mountain of success with you all beside me and eventually we will find ourselves on the top and no matter how often we fall.

One wise man said: "It ain't about how hard you hit, it is about how hard you can GET hit and keep moving forward."

And I guess that's what Allah will allow us with his help. May Allah make us stronger and give us power and the best shield to succeed.

With all greetings!

Asalam u aleykum.

 

How is it going my brothers?

 

easyy you mirin brah?

 

Glad to read this.

I'm good to go brother. Is there anything new going on ?

 

If you are going to keep avoiding being alone in order to resist PMO, it will eventually backfire when you are alone. Because you are dependent on external factors and not on the strength of your own mind or soul. Face shaytaan/the devil/antichrist/demons on his own ground. Spit him in the eye and tell him that your body and your soul are your own. They do not belong to him and he cannot force you to surrender what is God's gift. You have to do it willingly. Have faith in yourself and your relationship with your God. Do not be afraid of yourself. You are stronger than this. We all are.

 

Hey brother,

head up buddy. You are really brave and courageous. You have no fear to face struggle. People who face struggle have to fight and take the hits. You took one hit now but this wont stop you insha Allah. Fight as long as you can, no matter how often you fall. Someday and I strongly believe in this, you will stand up and keep up for a long, long time and you did before. Everyone could relapse, this is a process of success. But if you never try to quit you will also not relapse. This is why you are basically doing really good. You try to quit this crap and this is why you took the risk to fall.

So don't give up. Believe in Allah intensively and he'll guide you. Everything that happens to us is planned by Allah swt. He knows our path before we get born SUBHAN ALLAH. He is the almighty, who forgives everything if he wants to. He is the creator and beyond everything SUBHAN ALLAH. La illaha illa Allah. Be happy to be a Muslim my brother.

If I wouldn't have relapsed 3 month ago I wouldn't have ever met you guys.

So keep going, we can do this TOGETHER.

So, don't be sad Taqwaman. You are strong and I know that. YOU will further go and YOU may be one of the successful if Allah is willing to make you of the successful.

May Allah make us all of the successful, make peace all over the world and between us and forgive us all sins. HE is the creator and only he.

Salam!

 

You can do it. Get up and start again. Don't give up.

 

I had to come back to this forum. I'm messing things up

 

Hey brother,

what's up, nice to see you and welcome back. Build up what you messed up again. Keep straight, we gonna help you.

 

Salam aalaikum brothers
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