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new to nofap but old to relapses

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by marcelonds, Jun 25, 2021.

  1. Jun 25, 2021 #1
    marcelonds

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    Hi, here I am, with a heavy head and feeling terrible for having gone back to consuming, I have been wanting to get rid of this addiction for a while and I can't, I have faith in God, but it's hard, I'm always asking for forgiveness for the same sin . I'm getting married in 3 months, I don't want to bring this addiction into my marriage. I really need help
     
    marcelonds, Jun 25, 2021
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  2. Jun 25, 2021 #2
    Sean Edie

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    Welcome. There's different groups for which ever religion you are and plenty of people ready to support you
     
    Sean Edie, Jun 25, 2021
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  3. Jun 25, 2021 #3
    marcelonds

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    Vou olhar, obrigado pelo conselho.
    Eu sou brasileiro, então meu inglês é horrível
     
    marcelonds, Jun 25, 2021
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  4. Jun 26, 2021 #4
    John Galt

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    You can definitely make it man. A lot of us believe in God, but that just isn't enough. The reality is that porn addiction causes damage to our minds, and it takes work and time for that to heal. The good news is, there is a lot of healing happening around here. I'm on day 10 of my first real attempt to quit, and I can promise you its worth it. I've started almost every prayer for the last 10 years with guilt over my addiction. I dreaded praying, so at some point I just stopped. I can't even describe how good it feels to go to God with victory. Its a sacrifice I'm making for him. I know its not enough to save me, nothing I ever do will pay that price, but I feel like a kid who just cleaned his room and is showing his parents. Keeping you in my prayers, HMU if you need any encouragement or support, or just someone to talk to. Glad you're here.
     
    John Galt, Jun 26, 2021
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  5. Jun 26, 2021 #5
    Julian Baker

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    If you're really in a tough place, maybe try and use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy techniques and strategies as they will be able to give you some hands on practi cal strategies that you can measure.

    What ever you do I wish you the best of luck!

    BTW, love the marsupial
     
    Julian Baker, Jun 26, 2021
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  6. Jun 27, 2021 #6
    marcelonds

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    Thank you very much, I have also arrived in a part of my life that I was ashamed to talk to God. But I'm really trying to get rid of this addiction for good. I hope you can too.
     
    marcelonds, Jun 27, 2021
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  7. Jun 27, 2021 #7
    marcelonds

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    Thank you very much, I will look into the techniques.
     
    marcelonds, Jun 27, 2021
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