35 and Older Accountability Group

Good luck Wanttosucceed, fingers crossed for you!

 

Big fail today :/

Reset

 

@artifact can I join this group? I'm only 34 but hoping you will have some leniency with me being just 1 year off.

Thanks either way!

 

Checking in. Been a fantastic week with a buddy in town, lots of mountain biking and lake swimming. Be well everyone

 

Sleep deprivation and unexpected free time led to a reset today. Thinking back over the past month, whenever I'm sleepy I'm prone to a reset, so I'm going to watch myself a little closer on those days.

A reminder to my future self: It's not as fun as you remember. It was never as fun as you remember. Your brain is tricking you.

 

Checking in. Hot days upon us here, which leads to lethargy which leads to boredom so staying vigilant. Be cool everyone

 

Thanks for letting me join @artifact. Glad to be part of this group! I will be here to support you all and excited to be here.

 

Checking in....streak is strong

I've realised that I have replaced my addiction to looking at porn with one of edging aka just masturbating without ejaculating. I mean I don't do it for hours a day, usually just a few mins but I think it's the addictive side of my brain wants that feeling of arousal and thinking of sex with women and it's a comfort especially when I'm feeling upset and low. Anyway I've realised it's not good for me so has anyone got any advice on how to tackle it?

Thanks brothers

 

Checking in. Another scorcher today, but well prepared. Looking forward to time with my kiddo and lots of water play! Be well everyone

 

Hang in there @artifact. Get back up, you can do this!

Day 5 here, 4/7 days completed on my 7 day challenge.

 

When I have issues I tend to notice the problem wasn't when I fapped it was much earlier. Also when I'm trying to stop PM without changing who I am it doesn't work.

There are no half measures. No more "funny" radio shows on the way to work that try to be arousing. Never watching shows that are turn ons. Etc...

I find myself wanting to rid myself of PM without changing. That's not going to happen... And that's not a bad thing. This journey will require lots but I feel the progress I've already made is worth it.

 

Checking in, delighted to be on 61 days. Last week was a big test for me. I often get a few days in a row where I feel really low/useless/incompetent, and it can be really hard to stay PM-free at these times. But I made it out the other side without relapsing, this time.

 

'I often get a few days in a row where I feel really low/useless/incompetent, and it can be really hard to stay PM-free at these times.'

Are you me?? I really relate to this.
61 days is a monumental achievement and reading this has inspired me to keep going today.
Go for it buddy - proud of you

 

Each and every member of this beautiful group inspire me , those who go far or those who try hard .

Lets try again!
@artifact

 

Hey all! Day 6 here. 5/7 days completed on my 7 day challenge.

 

Exercise is really helpful