What is your motivation to quit PMO?

P has stolen my life. My mind has been warped by it and I can spend hours on the computer doing essential nothing. This has become a god to me and I need to cling to the greater God to bring myself out of it

 

Personally want to be free of the urge (I don't like "needing" or "wanting" something like this), way better for my relationship, don't think it's all that healthy for the human brain!

 

Eventually you come to learn how nature really works and why your sex drive isn't meant to be "MO"-ed. (And why trying to fight nature is a crappy idea).

Yes there are effects (some good/some bad) from doing NoFap, but these are the intended (i mean, intended by "nature") results. For me -- I do NoFap because MO "misguides" me away from how nature, sex, relationships, etc...... (you name it!!) really work, and instead gives me some fake "rose-colored glasses" view of the world instead.

Though, I find it funny that some folks refer to (or "complain" about) this as being some sort of "flatline", whereas in reality taking away some "rose-colored glasses" doesn't mean having a "black/depressing" view of the world but rather means you have to put on some "realistic glasses" instead.

Granted, NoFap is definitely not a "silver bullet", and likewise not every PMO-er feels necessarily willing to finally go along with how nature really works. And for them, I wouldn't recommend it either (no offense to NoFap). Nor of course would I recommend it to someone happily going along doing both real sex and PMO every now and then either too.

 

Getting my D to work again!
Enjoying actual sex, not mental.
Gaining confidence in my being, by not hiding in this shit black hole of isolation. Done with the shame.

 

doing pmo make me an addict doing it over and over again, when i was stressed i did,when i was lonely i did, when i was horny i did.. releasing semen frequently damage my body and mind, pmo make me a freak among people and interacting with them also i lost my sleep because pmo release my stress than sleep does, i have no lots of friends and i have no gf or having sex because i found porn before these things, i am not in a position of marriage because i spend lots of time on pmo than doing my career, i could not scold my parents to not letting me socializing in my childhood. Today this affect negatively in my life if i say in short form, that's why i want to give up.

 

Trust the process and keep on.

 

Los hábitos se han forjado en un por años y años, No es Realista esperar cambios Súper rápidos, x eso es un proceso ... Yo intenté liberarme usando MO por meses, pero al final llegué a PMO , en fin. Ahora La meta es full libertad del PMO ... Ánimo yo Día 12 y contando ...

 

My motivation is to:
1. Get an full erection
2. To have a healthy relationship with a woman,
3. Enjoy real sex like I used too

 

Esa debe ser la vida sexde una persona Normal, si es posible con una pareja estable, una familia...No es mucho Aspirar? Dios nos ayude

 

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