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I have seen (for 2-3 seconds) some hot photos and I ejaculated without touching my penis, relapse?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ciandolista, Jul 2, 2021.

  1. Ciandolista

    Ciandolista Fapstronaut

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    Hi to everyone. This afternoon I searched one girl's profile in IG in order to catch some information, and I encountered some hot photos (with naked boobs and ass). Although I saw these photos only for 2-3 seconds, I felt very aroused and I ejaculated without touching my penis. Is this a relapse?
     
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  2. PaFappa the Rapper

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    Yes. Also, sounds like something that would happen to me. Do you suffer from PE?
     
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  3. Ciandolista

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    Hi bro, thanks for you reply. I suffer from ED but not caused by porn, my ED has been caused by 15 years of prone masturbation.
     
  4. PaFappa the Rapper

    PaFappa the Rapper Fapstronaut

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    I've had the same issue. It also prevents me from getting massages even if they're not sexual. I feel like I can ejaculate simply lying down on a bed. Just stay in the fight. I've definitely noticed improvement from these issues when on a long streak.
     
  5. Ciandolista

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    But this is normal. If you feel you can ejaculate in every moment is not a relapse, maybe It's a relapse only if the ejaculation is caused by a stimulation.
    Anyway, about my case, what do you think, other brothers of this forum? Is it a relapse? :)
     
  6. jt850

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    I wouldn't call this a relapse. If the pictures you saw were just stumbled upon and not purposely sought out, that isn't a relapse. And if you ejaculated without touching your penis, how can that be considered a relapse? I wouldn't say relapse but I would say be very careful because, since you were aroused, relapse is really easy now. Keep strong brother!
     
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  7. Melkhiresa

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    it is not a relapse do not be too hard on yourself that way lay madness, instead be proud that you 1) did not give in to the temptation of looking at more pictures(or more) and 2)that you did not binge post-orgasm.
    You will be having a lot of unconscious emissions at first(i mean when you are sleeping or napping) if you count each and every one a relapse you will be here for a long time.
     
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  8. mentorr

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    In my personal opinion, I think this is a relapse.

    Maybe I am stricter than most, but the lines that stand out to me are:
    followed by

    Instagram was the CAUSE and ejaculation was the EFFECT. If you are undertaking a reboot, it makes sense to avoid any form of trigger, including social media apps. If after ejaculating you feel fine, then by all means continue your reboot as normal. But I think the question to ask yourself is; if you do not think this is a relapse, why are you asking?
     
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  9. Ciandolista

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    I'm asking this because in my opinion It's a border line. Your comments are appropriate and are the same I have thought, even though I didn't go to this Ig profile to see hot photos ma to see another things... but as you said I have to avoid these triggers because they can endanger the reboot
     
  10. Revanthegrey

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    Nope is not , but
    Nope , the relapse is all about intention , you searched for information of the girl not for looking nudes.
    Nope is not, the relapse is all about intention , you searched for information of the girl not for looking nudes.
     
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  11. OhWhenThe

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    I think there's probably more to your version of events than you are letting on. No one nuts after unexpectedly being exposed to some pictures for three seconds. I suspect that whilst you didn't intentionally go looking for it, you still knew that there was a chance you might come across something. By that point your dopamine and adrenaline are already rising and then when you did see it you spent a little longer looking at it than 2-3 seconds. Is it a relapse? I think so, yes, but this isn't the olympics, it's not a competition with black and white rules. If you managed to compose yourself afterwards and not go back then you are still heading in the right direction.
     
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  12. TruthIsFreedom

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    Hey hey absolutely not, do you think youre going to loose all your brain changues and healing just because you got aroussed by accident and eyaculating? of course not, keep going in your journey.
     
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  13. Ciandolista

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    Yeah, you are right. Even though I didn't visite the IG profile to look hot photos, I was perfectly aware It could be possible to come across them but I didn't see these images for more than few seconds (2-3 seconds for 2 times, so in total 5 seconds)... anyway yes, I think I managed to compose my self, I had very strong urges but I resisted and I didn't even touch my penis. This event made me aware that I have to avoid every possible temptation, such as IG profiles.
    Thank you for everyone of you who answered to me :)
     

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