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Which one is worst: Porn Addiction or Sex Addiction ? Why ?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Mr.Tony, Jul 3, 2021.

  1. Which one is worst: Porn Addiction or Sex Addiction ? Why ?

    Which one of them is harder to quite.

    I never experienced Sex nor Sex Addiction.

    I prefer to call it love making - more based on Love and Intimacy and Emotions and Affection.

    I'm curious about which one is pretty hard to quit.

    I'm a few months away from finishing my first year of NO PMO / NO SEX, and I'm curious about this one.

    Anyone who've been could give us some helpful advices, how it started...
     
  2. Why would this question be helpful to you?

    There are more facets to sex addiction that someone without psychological literacy would be ill equipped to deal with. There's a whole 12 Step group called Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous. It's not just the name, they recognize there's a relational part that has to do with codependency and the like.

    At a certain point it has to do with psychology more than just "how hard is it to quit X", and there's no way to actually explain why if there isn't enough psychological literacy, it's almost like trying to communicate to someone in a different language. It's sort of like asking "is it harder to quit internet addiction on a phone or a computer" - there may be some aspects that make it relevant at that level like the portability and convenience, but it's about the internet and not the device to access it.

    Do you have reason to believe you'd have easy access to porn? If you don't isn't that like asking how addictive a drug is when it's really hard to come by?
     
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  3. Thank you for your reply, I want to know to know the answer to it because i learn more from people's mistake, In this world everything has been " Sexualized " and turned from abnormal into normal, women in my family say that Porn is Normal to use for every man and they say that living a life without sex ( Incel ) is abnormal ? And yes i live in a Islamic Conservative society and this is being said, I wounder how the case is hard out there in the west! I guess if you're not really equipped with some hard defense Psychological and Mature Mechanism, You'll fail! Men are desined to Mutliplay their offspring and in this era, everything has been sexualized, even normal girls share there pictures as sexy as possible everywhete in the social media, you need to have a strong heart and well education.

    The real question remains, where men prepared for this hyper sexulized era ?

    I know the majority can't be that strong, I refuse to be a weak men - It's not my type to begin with, I just want to know - ehat mistake they did so that i can evade them!

    I'm 3 months away from finishing NO PMO year!

    Thanks for reading my friend.
     
  4. It's not just a defense, actually when people talk about psychological defense mechanisms it tends to be something people are not aware of. A psychologically savvy/literate perspective is really a big picture perspective. You may not be able to talk to many of your family members and local community about it, but there are people out there. In general the West seems to be more developed in terms of psychological knowledge just because people are more individualistic, so this is not a statement about one being better in all regards but just this one. There's also no guarantee that people in the West with a little bit of psychological knowledge is honest about themselves, it is possible they only think it's other people who have problems when it's kind of obvious they do too. But as a formal discipline you would be able to learn more here, which may involve programs you can access online.
     
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  5. TheDrugoAbides

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    It's a trick question in my opinion, both are pretty bad but with sex addiction you could hurt the feelings of other people as well and not just yours and in the end you will feel miserable just the same, so if we talking about "the lesser of two evils" principle I would go with porn addiction, which would be also the harder to quit because you can have access to porn 24/7 though
     
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  6. PaFappa the Rapper

    PaFappa the Rapper Fapstronaut

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    The one major difference is that you can't contract an STD (some deadly) through porn
     
  7. new genie

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    porn addiction is worse because of how easily accessible it is
    constantly having access to something addictive is a bad combination
     
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  8. I guess with the right mindset, you can easily avoid Porn because it'd always there in the internet.

    But when it comes to women, men are generally weak - and they can't miss an opportunity when a woman give that to them, today it is available tomorrow i will Regret missing it - It's how many men think.
     
  9. Melkhiresa

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    This is one lazy answer honestly there are tons of studies out there on porn addiction and sexual addiction and many written for the lay man, if you have already perused them can you not explain it in a simple way? and they do not require any psychological literacy either -or if they do it is neatly explained like this- to comprehend.
    Beside OP asked about personal experience of supposedly people who have somewhat managed their addiction.
     
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  10. The only thing i experienced is Porn Addiction - And i regret it for every word as it is.
     
  11. pancakebaker99

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    I might have to say sex addiction only because of the kid part. If someone has lots of sex that person ends up with lots of kids from different women all those kids grow up without a father since the sex addict just wants sex not a family.

    Porn addiction could probably be seen as worse I feel if you think about it on a deeper scale. For example, every porn video the addict watches is probably giving fuel to a corrupt industry
     
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