I have Latex fetish, porn and masturbation addiction, please help!

Hello @Da User and welcome. It's good you joined and look for help. I am sure you will find a lot of support here, there are guys around your age here who can become good recovery buddies, I am sure. Your goals sound good to me.
My advice would be to go one day at a time. In the morning when you get up you make a plan for that day. Make a promise to yourself: Today I will stay clean and sober. Just today. That's not that hard. Only today. Tomorrow we'll see. One day is manageable. I can do this. I am worth it. I will keep my pants up and my hands above the table. Today. Yes.
And with each day you grow stronger. Focus on where you want to go, what you want in life and why. Being clean for prayer is nice but better is staying clean, sober and hence healthy for your own benefit which you then can share with your loved one. Love is the word. Love fulfills. Porn and wanking is junk. Junk sex. Like there is junk food. Porn industry is a lab for human testing, like animal experimentation. We let them use us and become sex junkies. Love is what you want.

 

Good luck dude. I hope you find freedom from your demons. Start with small positive habits in your everyday life. These add up over time and help a lot. Don't give up.

-J29

 

Welcome!
I developed a similar fetish but for women in just yoga pants or softer looking tight fitting material (spandex). It's funny isn't it? I can look at latex and not be turned on at all guys into latex and shiny stuff are not turned on by women in spandex. but like mine escalated to where the material became the primary thing.

First, it's important to not be ashamed - shame is what is keeping us in the dark - it's great that you've come here and faced this and want to get better.

Second you are not a bad person for having this happen and you are not your fantasies or fetishes, anymore than someone with a drinking problem is defined by it.

Read journals of people here who have been successful and see what works for you.
start your own journal in the appropriate section (broken down by age, but you should read and post on anyone you connect with) and record what works, what doesnt' and your progress and set backs.

Pick some self improvement material to read- There are books on sexual addictions like Patrcik Carne's out of the shadows.

Most people here who are successful do a few things:

• some form of mediation - if this is not compatible with your religion perhaps there is some similar thing (in Christianity we have the rosary for example) you can practice; apologies if i am incorrect, but I believe Islam for example as a five prayer a day ritual? Something like that, done mindfully would be a great way to frame your day.
• learn some techniques to deal with anxiety -a lot of this is driven by anxiety and 'escaping'
• cold showers
• exercise - this is KEY!
• low sugar keto/paleo diet
• journaling
• reading quit material.