When relapsing is it better to watch harder porn and have a proper O or have blue balls?

This like asking "do I shoot my heroin
or I snort it because whenever I'm more deep into my streak I feel like I need to shoot otherwise I constantly think of heroin."

This is a mind confuse about his gender, sexuality and a full porn addict.

No hate bro, it's just how it is.

 

You need to find a healthy way to deal with it like sports, walking outdoors

 

The OP profile just died @Austin88, yeah this guy was way too confuse. This page was not the solution for him but a psychiatrist is.

 

Best of lucks to him, I hope he finds peace

 

That guy was a bizarre creep.

Hope this isn't completely against NoFap's policy, but tbh if you absolutely cannot make it without a wank, why not just wank it without porn? I see no reason to have a wank to hardcore or even softcore porn as opposed to your imagination if you cannot help yourself or you're going to relapse.

I'm currently on MonkMode but if you have blue balls or you're sex crazed and you are going to do it, you don't need porn. All that's going to do is create a vicious cycle of escalating fetishes. Even a No-Porn streak with M is better than being stuck in a PMO haze.

 

It’s better to not relapse at all, full stop.

If you did, think about what thoughts in your psyche made you relapse, and how to deal with them, so that next time those thoughts come along you’ll be better prepared to deal with them without resorting to PMO.

 

If you're going to relapse I think it is best to get it over with as quickly as possible.