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16 yo ED Ina relationship plz give advice

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Penisman, Jul 17, 2021.

  1. Penisman

    Penisman Fapstronaut

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    So my girl is very sexual and today we were making out and she asks if I have a condom (this is both of our first time) and I said something like how about I do something else implying I just eat her out but she was insecure so instead I just fingered her while we made out. I really love this girl even small things like fingering her make me just so happy but I want to b able to have sex with her. I'm 16 yo virgin and I've been masterbating fora long Time and I hate to say it but I was probably addicted because I often did it once a day fora long time and now I have problems getting hard, I did have a condom and I want to have sex with her but I cannot get or maintain an erection. Please anyone give me advice on how to gain strong and stable erections, today I'm 8 days NoFap and I do kegel exercises and tmrw I'm gonna start working out and eating foods like bananas figs and tomatoes to help with my erections but she is ready for me and I am ready for her I just need to fix my erections. Any advice will be appreciated thank you
     
  2. Yeah just
    - Exercise
    - Eat healthy
    - Limit/quit masturbation, but more importantly QUIT WATCHING PORN
    But above all, you have to approach sex with the right mindset. If you try to have sex all anxious constantly worrying about your performance, you're going to suck. If you have sex with a calm and confident mindset you will have a blast.

    Another thing: Idk if this is placebo, but my sex drive significantly increases when I eat seafood. Maybe try adding more seafood to your diet?

    Another thing (2): most of our first times suck, so don't be too hung up if yours does too.
     
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  3. DarkHunter

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    If you really like this girl your dick will get hard for sure, but don’t worry too much about this act, otherwise nothing is gonna help you to perform if mentally you r not ready.
     
  4. deeroo

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    If your girlfriend loves you too, you will find the emotional support that you need.
    If she does not accept you in this condition, there are two big possibilities:
    1. She is not mature enough... Her emotional part isn't sufficiently developed to maintain a lovely relationship with a partner .
    2. She probably is a toxic person. Just quit and avoid this kind of persons and relationships.​
    Don't get demoralized on your poor sexual performance on a such young age. You don't need SEX, you need LOVE - connection and feeling.
    Hope you are on the good way.
     
  5. DarkHunter

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    He's 16 years old, stop watching romantic movies. Love does not come when you are 16. The only thing he needs is experience.
     
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  6. Penisman

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    Today I started working out and next time I'm able to go to the store I'm gonna get foods that are supposed to help with ED and I'll give the sea food a try too cuz I enjoy sea food anyway, I haven't masterbaited or watched porn for 9 days now. It's hard sometimes because I still have a sex drive I just can act on it because I have trouble getting hard. Thanks for the help and advice man appreciate it alot
     
  7. Penisman

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    I'm really into her like it's weird but I can feel it, I just can't get hard and want to fix that asap
     
  8. Penisman

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    I'll keep all that in mind thanks man appreciate it
     
  9. deeroo

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    I am not the person who needs this advice.
     
  10. OhWhenThe

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    When I was 16 I would get rock hard just from standing near a girl, I remember one time I was with a female friend at a bus stop and I was genuinely worried that my dick was going to explode lol. Whilst I was masturbating a lot at that age I hadn't yet discovered porn so my brain wasn't corrupted like it is now, hence why just being near an attractive girl got me unbelievably aroused. Eating right and exercising is always good advice but at 16 I highly doubt either of those factors are playing much part in your problems.
     
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  11. David117

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    Hey bro, i had the same problem when I was 17, it really sucks. Remember that the problem is in your mind. Talk to your girlfriend and tell her that you like her, but that youre a little bit nervous. Quit masturbation and practice activities which keep you relaxed. Try not to think much about sex while you are with her, just go with the flow.

    Good luck!
     
  12. Penisman

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    So staying away from porn is what u think would help me the most?
     
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  13. p1n1983

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    is easy. Just avoid porn and masturbation. Eventually you are going to be able to get normal strong erections.
     
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  14. Penisman

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    Thanks man, giving me hope appreciate it
     

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