445 days. Nofap and break ups, attraction story

Current streak: 445 days no PMO, semen retention

I just broke up with my girlfriend like 2 days ago she's a 10/10 physically but in the long run I knew we weren't meant to be together. It was hard I knew or believed I couldn't find a better girl. Also the emotional aspect had me a little down.

Yesterday I decided to completely forget about girls for a while or at least not actively pursuing them and only focus on my studies.

I went with this attitude to the gym today to do some movement practice and yoga. Two beautiful girls were doing exercises next to me I didn't know them so I just ignored them.

One of the girls asked me what I was doing I explained I was doing movement practice a mix of yoga, dancing, moving, improvisation. She told me she wanted to learn handstands I helped her a bit and we exchanged numbers to do some yoga on Monday.

Both girls left at the same time they are friends and then one of them the one I didn't talk to came back alone. She started talking to me, she is a painter and showed me some of her art on the phone. We exchanged numbers. Later we started talking, she sent me pictures and videos of herself, decent ones without me asking for it.

This girl is 18 years old, two years younger than my ex, she has a more fun personality, more beautiful, smart and better body, we're more compatible. She seems really interested in me. She completely made me forget my ex who I thought had a strong chance to be the love of my life.

By the way when the girl came back to talk to me without her friend, after a while another girl approached us and started to talk to me. When the girl left this other girl hit on me, I didn't like this one so much so I didn't ask her number, but she was good looking too. It was like all were fighting for me at the same time. It was strange but I'm not so excited about it, this can be good or nothing can come out of it, you never know.

I think Nofap helps a lot to create these situations simply holding a streak, being able to control your sexuality and not depending or being controlled by sex or women makes you more attractive to them.

Conclusions:
- Breakups are hard but there's always someone better.
- A non caring attitude, unsexualized approach to women can help you to attract them
-nofap helps with girls but it needs to be joined with a healthy mindset.
-workout and have a good body it helps

P. S: I'm not Brad Pitt

 

About career starting to study medical specialty next year.

Girls it's always the same a girl with good energy and we get along

 

I wrote this status yesterday

the mind that remains calm despite the storm or while enjoying the pleasure of the gods the all world surrenders

Take this attraction story for example you could say I'm living many mens dream, but I really don't care because one day you have luck the next you don't, I could suffer an accident, get sick and lose it all.

I've had hard times, but I always tried to remain calm, this give a happiness that is beyond circumstances.

 

Stay with her, being single it's not so fun. Being with one girl and then the next is an empty lifestyle. She loves you, she is attractive. She seems not to be a burden or annoying you. You may regret it later, leaving a nice girl for the womanizer dream.

 

It could be. But if a girl tells you she's going to kill herself if you leave her that is most likely psychological manipulation and a sign she's a crazy girl. Crazy girls don't kill themselves they are too narcissistic to do it. But saying she'll kill herself because of you is never a good sign. Big red flag.