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is this normal?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by kumarach, Jul 22, 2021.

  1. Jul 22, 2021 #1
    kumarach

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    is it normal to feel lonely on nofap?.i'm trying to be a better version of myself and give up this demeaning habit that i formed just out of loneliness.i wanted to seek escape and ended with pmo.
    i feel bored and nothing seems to interest me like before.it feels wierd.in real time i don't really have anyone to talk to. it feels really depressing and odd. i used to read a lot of books but rn i can't coz i've got to focus on an upcoming exam,for like 2 months and all and this thing has been going on for something close to 3 yrs now.
    is this really normal?? that is really my question,does a person really feel this self hate and loneliness while on nofap or is it just me and my head?
    any and all answers will be appreciated. and yess if at all possible, can i please talk to someone on a regular basis? ik that sharing personal details is against the rules of the forum but i sincerely think i need someone i can talk to on a daiyl basis.
     
    kumarach, Jul 22, 2021
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  2. Jul 22, 2021 #2
    DeeJ4y

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    It is normal. Before after you felt that you would just PMO and forget it, now you are feeling the actual feeling if it makes sense. I have struggled with this as well. You can PM me anytime, I am here often but I can not promise to answer everyday, but quite often. God bless you.
     
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  3. Jul 22, 2021 #3
    backapollyon

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    I guess you used to consume PMO to forget and evade that thoughts. Now you formed some loneliness thoughts but is not that bad. You know have time to get to know yourself better and go out for a walk, do some social plans and you will eventually know someone. If you have PMO in your life you would never try getting better, you will just evade and forget those stuff
     
    backapollyon, Jul 22, 2021
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  4. Jul 23, 2021 #4
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    For someone in your position, yes it is normal. For the right thinking person, no, it is not. Porn is a solution to some other underlying problem. It isn’t a very good solution but it is workable for quite a while. That’s why so many men have fallen prey to it. As you abandon the porn habit to you must develop others. There are better solutions to the pain of loneliness. You need self care routines and you need a social life. PM me if you want to chat.
     
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  5. Jul 23, 2021 #5
    LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself

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    You must use this suffering as fuel toward your future success.
     
    LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself, Jul 23, 2021
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