Paying normal women to have sex

No there’s plenty but they just straight hire prostitutes, which you are basically doing but you get women who are part time prostitutes essentially. Create a plan for yourself, find someone you can be accountable to even if it’s just someone online for the time being, and stop watching porn. If you can’t trust yourself you need to find someone to help you pulled yourself out of the gutter enough where you can wash off and get some stability.

The road your going down is dangerous and it only gets easier to do as you get older. The road to recovery requires sacrifice and it’s painful. But the rewards are greater and you can become a meaningful part of someone’s life who genuinely likes you for who you are. But not down that road, that road is just loneliness and poverty and disease. You gotta stop now. You have like 6 more years and then your brain is fully developed and it’s going to be so much harder for you. Do it now while your young.

 

A definition of a prostitute is a woman who gets paid for sexual activity. They were prostitutes, obviously.

You're not alone with your problem. Write a post in the thread "New on NoFap" and describe your problem in details. You should find people with similar issues, maybe someone who has already dealt with them. Get as much help as you can from NoFap.

You're so young, and just like NamaClature14 said, your brain is still developing. It's the best moment to stop, because it really gets harder the older you are.

 

Welcome.

It is so, so tough not to devolve to the point where you want to thrust so badly that you pay for sex, then it's a slippery slope. Not to mention what a turnon it is to do the transaction. (For me, anyway.)

Please hang in, pal. The other men here have it right - keep showing up here, and share what you need to share. You can always delete it.

 

I have seen people who tried the same thing posting about it here, and whether they realize it or not I don't think it works. If you actually read this forum you'll find people who are addicted to that process and blowing a ton of money, one of the mods even posted about it recently.

Even if you don't pay for it, it's likely you're going to be wanting more if nothing else. The simplistic logic seems to boil down to there's the dimension of touch from another person vs. just the visual from porn. Also from how you describe it it sounds like it is a continuation or acting out of the fantasy. In this case you can't easily repeat it since it's your savings.

This part probably won't mean much to you but there's better relationships to be had. On one level our society is just on a very low sub human standard these days as far as I'm concerned, but it's up to each of us individually whether we want to be better and even if it's the minority there are others who can connect in a better way.

 

You are still young! I'm 18, at our age we shouldn't be on tinder. Dont worry about having or not sex, worry about porn!

If you are confident its easy to know people at our age, just ask friends to meet their friends and those stuff! Talk about studies, sports, videogames... If you hire a girl, you will only have sex once, with a girlfriend, even she will help you with porn addiction and of course you will have a lot of sex (but thats not the most important thing)

So if you are brave enough to reboot, you will see in a cleaner way!

 

Tinder I’ve been on it. It’s not as good as it plays out to be. Things now days are different then our parents and so forth with the Internet. Make sure your careful your young, wrap it up!
Not saying you should be having sex but always wrap it up!
I’d step away from that app, stay busy, find some hobbies, meet normal girls, and don’t offer them money like it really doesn’t make you look good to them. People who accept money for sex don’t really care about you they just care about the money, find someone who isn’t into that. my advice.

 

Wow, prostitution on dating apps? This deserves to be put on my list of the symptoms of civilisational decline.

What’s next, middle school classmates just casually inviting each other for sex instead of football or PlayStation?

 

That is much more common than parent would like to admit.

 

Shit.

 

Im sorry to tell you, is not that weird, hormones play bad

 

I know this is kinda blunt, but stop doing it. You've already reached a high dopamine kick off from paying woman to have sex which is extremely dangerous in general. Hope you are doing it protected.. The high level is already going to be wired in your brain to do it again, again, and again. Just like watching pornography.

It's not like teacher's are already having sexual relationships with students. But I'm not surprised if its going on some where, really not.

 

Is it the act of paying them that turns you on? Do you think you would be turned on without that?

 

I used to deal with escorts that had internet sites cost alot of money and the sex was rushed and so so , Theres a quote i like to use in this situation its this " theres being laid and theres being loved" with escorts i was just getting laid no connection with real women i was being loved real connection .