NoFap's Official "Regeneration July"- commit to be PMO free all month!

Day 6 done!

 

Still on track here.

 

I have to get started again… But I‘m waiting in this challenge till August…

 

Did you relapse? In any case, you might want to consider to not wait to start your new streak until August. If you start now, the worst phase (for many) will be over when August starts.

 

Hi guys I have been having trouble motivating to get involved in NoFap. Here is me trying to dive in and be a part of the challenge. Today is Day 1 of 90 of No P to rewire my brain to a fresh start. (my tracker isnt working i think).

1. I read and summarized Getting Started in my own words.
2. Here is my JADE (journal, accountability, daily recording, evidence tracking) (https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/greentides-breakthrough-milestone.311034/#post-3069420).
3. I all ask questions and ask for help/support when Im feeling triggers. Will also msg my accountability buddy
   
4. I am doing this because I want to feel like I control my life. I don't like that something controls me. I don't like that I can't say no to porn and masturbation. I want the feeling of conquering. Like I have defeated an enemy, or an army. I want my life to open up to new opportunities. All the life that was squandered in time wasted on porn and masturbation. All the harm it caused my soul, my body, my psyche. I want a fresh start and to do the amazing things I am supposed to do without fapping.

Thanks guys.

 

Yes, I relapsed... You're right: Therefore I'm posting here although there are only a few days left in July - but they're important!
Day 3 done.

 

Day 4 done!

 

Day 2 done! Im also posting in the 14 day challenge.

 

We're almost there for those who have committed for the month!

 

Day 0. I'm gonna try PMO for a month. Expecting to finish by August 31, 2021.

 

Day 5 done!

 

Day 6 done!

 

Great job, only one more day of July now.

 

We made it!

 

Very good! Let's keep it going throughout August now as well.

 

I know I'm late but I am here to celebrate, I think celebration is a really important part of reaching for goals. Remember to celebrate all your wins small and large. Even if it's been hard this month, even if you've relapsed be kind and generous to yourself, you are still choosing to be awake, you are aware of your need to change and engaging in a positive action to move from the place you don't want to be in. You have already changed. Keep going. See you in the August thread.

 

Dear Moderators:
I am interested in trying to join in for August, late, but before I post, could someone please direct me to the MOST CENTRALIZED and targeted thread to follow for an August Monthly Motivation thread which may fit my preferences below?
I am deeply grateful for all those who use these sites, and offer support. However, in the past and now, I am already discouraged and overwhelmed again by the confusing, huge number of "mass-market" of threads, subthreads, Reddit vs. NoFap, phone vs. PC, so I have no idea where to focus my time and energies with anyone remotely close aligned to my own needs.
I am certainly grateful for the wide range of ages, goals, circumstances, but in the past I find posts from all those different communities in a random, hodgepodge ends up feeling too non-targeted, and with all due respect, sometimes too superficial and trite to feel helpful (sorry). Seriously I value everyone here, and so sorry to sound whiny, but I just wish I could find a TARGETED, focused strike with some likeminded folks my age and with my similar issues. Years ago I tried accountability searches but those are tricky to find and maintain (Sure, i could try again).
The task itself is overwhelming enough, but the minute I try to tap into this great community, I get completely overwhelmed and lost.
And for starters, you say reply, but I am not clear is this a reply or a comment?!
The closest bond of support I can envision would be SOMEWHAT in the following same boat: Male, age 50 - 60, single, never married, no kids, formerly high functioning, socially skilled, formerly employed college grad, Metro USA region, but with chronic self esteem issues, and yes, a problem: chronic emotional stuff is causing long term unemployment/social isolation, and struggling lifelong relationship drought, and very specifically with Chaturbate addiction because of the live interaction. I realize that sounds very pathetic and perhaps too specific, but that is the deal. I am embarrassed to even post it.
Chaturbate is key. It is love addiction, not just sex.
If you have some SIMPLE focus to suggest I deeply appreciate leads.
Sorry I cannot afford to pay to subscribe for what may be the best options. Thank you and good luck to all.
If this needs editing and you suggest a revised post, I will. Thank you.

 

Day 1 is done

 

Starting now day 0. I actually recently relapsed do you guys have any advice on what to do when you relapse?