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Not Working out for me

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by JuicyFruit12, Aug 20, 2015.

  1. JuicyFruit12

    JuicyFruit12 New Fapstronaut

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    I dont know how so many people here can reboot. I dont know how they do it. I am not addicted to porn i jsut watch it once a week. It removes so much stress, along with the fap. I wanna stop, but i know it wont happen overnight. i just dont know where to begin. Where can i start, how i stop watching sapphic analingus and feel guilty about it. I dont wanna watch i hate myself. I dont wanna watch it know it fake yet i still watch and perform the act that comes with it. I all honesty i just wanna stop watching porn and masturbating. So please if ur reading this help me. I wanna take a NEW step towards change help me fight!
     
  2. It's your decision to fap - no-one can provide you with the willpower not to do it. You need to strengthen your mental resolve and really think about why you want to quit.
     
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  3. 8BitsOfStuggling

    8BitsOfStuggling Fapstronaut

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    If you are not addicted to porn, then A why are you here, and B why can't you stop? Unless....
     
  4. Pixelated Victory

    Pixelated Victory Fapstronaut

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    Girls hate porn and for good reason. The rumor that "girls like porn" is a total myth. If you want to have relationships with girls let alone have sex with them and not be burdened with the devilish symptom known as ED, quit porn and masturbation now.

    This is a bit personal but I used to have a sick fetish just like you do, and I'll tell you from experience I could not get hard with a woman in real time because that was the only thing that could get me off. That stuff is garbage and doesn't go on in real life.

    I think that is a good reason but that's just me.
     
  5. 8BitsOfStuggling

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    Porn is garbage yes. The fact that you think girls don't like porn, is a little concerning. I know a bunch of girls who like porn. Girls struggle with lust just as much as guys do. Thousands of girls watch porn and PMO, it isn't just men.
     
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  6. Pixelated Victory

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    I certainly wasn't neglecting our sisters who are in the same boat, sorry if it came off that way. My point was that, in general guys do watch more porn than women, and most of them don't like it. Depending on how bad your habit is they may think you are a total creep who objectifies women.
     
  7. 8BitsOfStuggling

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    That is what I am saying though. I don't even think in this day and age that it is fair to say that guys watch more than women. Yes there are a lot of women who stand openly against it, but there are guys who do too. That is all I am saying. I don't mean to argue with you. However, only 93 percent of women don't think porn is cheating, yet only 8-10% admit to watching porn. I agree with the common speculation today that probably at least 50% of women watch porn now, at least the ones growing up now days do. Even the ones you really would never expect. My girlfriend, who I thought was one of the most innocent girls on this planet, ended up telling me she struggled with M since a really young age. It is a lot more common than you think, most just wont talk about it. Now, I don't necessarily think that the ratio is as high, something like 90-100% of men have seen porn by the age of 14, willingly. But women are vastly catching up. So in a way, yes guys do watch more porn. But women are certainly not to be forgotten.
     

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