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Still having SUCCESS with GIRLS while ED

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by healmyself321, Aug 7, 2021.

  1. healmyself321

    healmyself321 Fapstronaut

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    Im kinda at a weird spot, I have had some solid success with girls for years but for last 12/15 months I was ignoring them thinking like "I will ignore them for a while just to heal up and than I will go back to old me" and obviously it didnt really work, I just distanced myself from females completely. Last month I decided to get back on track, was with few girls but its so weird because Im not 100% so I dont want to embarrass myself, like last weekend girl was sucking me half hard for an hour, I was drunk so I had an excuse but still it sucks lol. Does anyone had similar experience and should I chill out from girls or just play games with them without actually having sex or something like that?
     
  2. josedelamuerte

    josedelamuerte Fapstronaut

    I had a surprise hookup on day 6 of my previous streak. I was barely getting hard, and that didn't surprise me. I generally just try to avoid sexual encounters until I start getting morning wood and spontaneous erections (usually around day 45). It seems better than "playing games" to me, but I don't really know what to do when an opportunity like that falls in my lap (sometimes literally). On the one hand I don't want her to feel rejected, on the other I know it's no good for my recovery.
     
  3. mentorr

    mentorr Fapstronaut

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    What is stopping you from waiting until you are fully recovered, instead of place holding girls you know you cannot perform with?
     
    Last edited: Aug 8, 2021
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  4. Depressed&Out

    Depressed&Out Fapstronaut

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    Some people need to rewire to women before seeing signs of recovery - that's surely the quickest way to healing?
     
  5. mentorr

    mentorr Fapstronaut

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    I agree with this statement, but what I don't really understand is why would you deliberately play games with girls? If being open about your situation embarrasses you, why not just wait until you have recovered without female interaction?
     

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