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Has anyone been able to remove his boobs fetish ?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Cleanhead8020, Feb 14, 2021.

  1. Cleanhead8020

    Cleanhead8020 Fapstronaut

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    I'm around the 50 days off PM free (still O during sex) mark and now have a bit more deep thoughts about what harm porn might have caused in my life.

    Since my sexuality awakened, I have always been fond of bigger breast, and of course, when I discovered porn, my preference or fetish awakened.

    Bu that is the thing, I don't know if I have a preference or a fetish.

    I would have hoped by this point of not watching porn that the fetish would be fadding more but it's still there. I don't authorize myself to fantasize in any shape or form but I can my mind trying to pull me back to the big boobs fetish.

    I find that preference/fetish shallow as women are more than just breasts, just as men are more than penises.

    Have anyone been able to remove these kind of fetishes ? If so, how ?

    I'd like not to give a f*ck about breast size. Those fetishes/preferences just seem like a hindrance to life now, hindrance to feel fully satisfied.
     
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  2. If you have had this before watching porn then its not a fetish. If you have had this after watching porn then it should go away once you quit porn.
     
  3. Bigger only gets in the way in my opinion, and for a woman having huge breast, how the hell can they life comfortably with that?!?
     
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  4. Hmm. Just get it through your head that size don't matter. I'm into personality more than anything. Sizes are bonuses (no offense to women) imo so that's why I'm always able to focus. But I do get attracted to there body parts ex: boobs and such.
     
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  5. Pizzer

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    I think we're naturally wired to think bigger = better, which we know isn't true, but it's kind of intrinsic to our nature.

    What your problem seems to be is that you're objectifying women, don't be ashamed, we've all done it. You'll soon find that once you see women as just people, you can just appreciate breasts for what they are, pleasant fun bags and baby feeders, and they're all great no matter the size. But it's best not to sexualize them so much, unless you find yourself in a sexual setting with a partner, then it's different. :D
     
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  6. Nothing wrong with liking big titties bro. They're true marvels of nature :p... unless they're plastic ofc! :oops: Get yourself a girl who enjoys some fondling action and go to town.
     
  7. Jaquichan2021

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    Estoy igual : la pornografía dejo en miente esa admiración por fetiches de mujeres con senos grandes, muy grandes y gigantescos. En ocasiones también que ellas amamantaran a loa hobtes o mujeres que salian en el video me exitaba demasiado. Mi consejo es: mantén tu mente ocupada y lejos de redes sociales, eso ayuda mucho.
     
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  8. Cleanhead8020

    Cleanhead8020 Fapstronaut

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    All good advices, brothers.

    Yeah I probably have a natural preference for big boobs, but there is no need to feed the beast indeed.

    Stoping objectifying women and focusing more on personality is best.
     
  9. aescalapious

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    My obsession with not just big breasts but, huge breasts started after I was sexually abused at age 9 by my oldest brother's best male friend. We moved states shortly after the events and the first woman who welcomed our family to a new town had very large breasts. Repressed any self knowledge of why I lusted and got off so hard to huge breasts for 30 years until my wife of 20 years who has only C cups asked questions that made me realize when it started. The first time I had a sexual experience with a woman at 16, she had large breasts and I can't remember anything other than her breasts and licking and sucking them. It was many other women later before I actually had an orgasm and it was with a girl at a party who had huge breasts. Out of 19 women been with, only have actually been able to orgasm with 3, 2 of them with huge breasts and my wife who has curves which are equally as excessively feminine. I have a huge folder of huge breast porn and it is still what I go to for an orgasm in porn. I resent the fact that it stems from a traumatic childhood homosexual event but, it makes me orgasm so hard. As I have gained realization of where this fixation has originated and how it has impacted my life, want to move past it, not sure possible after all these years.
     
  10. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    I will start off by saying everyone likes boobs. They're great. Especially when they're big

    As long as your desire for them isn't detrimental to your life or your relationship with others, don't worry about it.

    Get a little distracted when you see a pair? Not a problem, as long as you don't stare.

    Not able to focus or function normally around large breasts? That sounds like an issue.

    Liking big boobs in a sexual way is such a universal feeling, you really shouldn't feel ashamed or guilty about it. You SHOULD feel ashamed or guilty if you can't see women for anything but their breasts, you have issues in bed if they don't have large breasts, or you feel like this fixation has led to behaviors or actions that have made others feel unsafe. A reboot will definitely help with that, as well as making some life changes to respect others and treat them better.
     
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  11. XandeXIV

    XandeXIV Fapstronaut

    Lots of us like a nice, big pair of boobs (but I don't like them too big). It's normal. And if it wasn't breasts you were into, it would probably be something else. I have a separate fetish that is a bigger issue for me, but I sort of see it and PMO addiction as separate problems. If I didn't have this fetish, I'd probably still be struggling with PMO over 'normal' porn. I probably can't remove the fetish and I may always be into what I'm into, but I believe I can stop PMO.
     
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  12. I mean, could you still get off to medium/smaller tiddies? Nothing wrong with having a preference, it could only become problematic if you NEED big tiddies (which even then, shouldn't be too bad anyway).
     
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  13. cresyhorse

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    broo I had this exact same problem. it's a curable fetish. I mean ofc when I see big boobs i instinctively look at them (it's in your nature), but then I try to look away and think of something else as a way not to sin.

    it's weakening the more I pray and do nofap.

    but yeah don't worry, as all other fetishes, this is your brain playing tricks on you.

    with time, this too, shall pass. :)
     
  14. MikeBR

    MikeBR Fapstronaut

    I’m in the same boat. It’s more preference for me.
     
  15. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

  16. If you study most recent and older tribal societies, also older "civilized" ones it appears that the fetish thing wasn't such a big issue concerning the nude body, also in the Scandinavian countries nowadays...lots more nudity than what we are used to in the US. My theory is that in societies where people practice more natural ways of living, including longer breast-feeding periods, you wouldn't see big boob fetishes. I also have a big boob fetish, but it has been declining. The reason why is because I am starting to see women more as people rather than porn characters. I started viewing women that way at a very early age, because my father was a sex/porn enthusiast and quite open about it. Also, my mother only breast-fed me for a short time, I think maybe only 6 weeks. There are probably millions of men who only received formula in a bottle, and again, I theorize that the various degrees of big boob fetishes are directly related to the amount of boob time as an infant. Check it out
     
  17. XandeXIV

    XandeXIV Fapstronaut

    Can we even refer to it as a fetish? When I google the definition of "fetish" (in a sexual context) I get:

    "Something, such as a material object or nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification."

    Breasts are definitely not nonsexual. On the other hand, if you can't be gratified without the right bust size, that would indicate a problem. As I said before, I like them big without being too big, but I can still be physically attracted to a woman with smaller or even larger.

    Ultimately words are just words. Whether it's normal to be attracted to something or not, and whether or not we call it a fetish, it can still become an unhealthy obsession and that's what needs to be addressed.
     
  18. Red Eagle

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    It probably won't go away. I count myself to the category of guys who definitely love big boobs. Not humongous, but above average. I don't think there is anything shameful about being attracted to boobs or any other part of the female body. A lot of guys like buts, a lot like legs, some like feet etc.. Just because one part of the female body really attracts you doesn't mean you objectify women. You can be sexually attracted to them and still value them as people. It's just in your head.

    Best is you accept yourself and your preferences as they are since they won't change.

    Also I wouldn't call boobs a fetish since basically every heterosexual guy is attracted to boobs in some way, shape or form. Some like them big, some small, some medium etc.. It's like saying a woman has a fetish for guys who are tall with broad shoulders. That's generally what women are into.
     
  19. Is it a fetish tho? It's more like a preference or something. Personally I love legs. Like long, strong/thick legs.
    I don't really think it's a fetish. As I understand you had that before you started watching porn, right? So it's not a fetish. It's more like a natural thing. Fetishes are devoleped on porn sites (porn fetishes) I believe.
     
  20. At least you aren't me.
    I like women's feet, fat women, and penis tickling and I'm honestly ashamed of liking all three of these things.
     

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