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Should i be calling her?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by A Naija boy, Aug 12, 2021.

  1. A Naija boy

    A Naija boy Fapstronaut

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    So, I started to reboot a week ago and so far its going well.
    But I don’t know calling my distant girlfriend is safe. She’s a bit wild but mostly loving, and anytime i call, i get kinda hard just hearing her voice.
    It is tempting, so what shuld i do?
     
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  2. josedelamuerte

    josedelamuerte Fapstronaut

    I have a similar problem with an old crush that breadcrumbs me every few weeks or so. Usually it lands at the beginning of my streaks, when I'm not too horny, and after she gets her attention fix she disappears again, so it was a non issue up 'till now. This time she showed up on day 15, and she's persistent for some reason, texting me and sending pictures in the evening when she's bored at work. It's been keeping me horny for the last few days, until last night I decided to just put our chat under "archived" before she had a chance to send anything, and not use my phone for the evening. It really made my night and morning much more manageable.
     
  3. A Naija boy

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    Well, am using a laptop to use this website. I dropped my IPhone and am using a non internet enabled phone till i finish my No pmo mode (prolly till Nov/Dec).
    so instead of calling her, guess i can be texting her only from now on?
     
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  4. josedelamuerte

    josedelamuerte Fapstronaut

    Yeah, if that doesn't trigger you then that's probably a good way to go about it.
     
  5. I think you should at least develop enough self control to be able to talk and look at girls without needing to fap. Avoiding even the lightest contact with women (in your case, just talking on the phone) just for a nofap streak seems pretty unhealthy to me and shouldn't be a long term behaviour.
     
  6. Quezatolah

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    If I were you I'd either dump the girl or make it a non-distance relationship, one of the two.

    Don't go through a reboot when you can basically get porn in your ears whenever you want.
     
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  7. A Naija boy

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    You totally right. That’s the whole point of rebooting: Control of your urges.
     
  8. A Naija boy

    A Naija boy Fapstronaut

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    Lol… exactly!!
    Porn in my ears:emoji_joy:
     
  9. A Naija boy

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    Tanks for the suggestion guys
     

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