Nofap is driving me crazy

Hey!

First, nobody ever died from not having sex.

Second, you have a girlfriend - aren't you guys having sex?

 

It is a phase only.
I had to go through it too.
It will pass.
Your mind is trying to substitute one exciting habit (p) with another ( looking at wimen).
If you are at peace with yourself , you will get over this phase. If you are not, you will relapse.
It is ok if you relapse, it only means you are not ready (yet)

 

You're doing great man, keep up. It's only a phase, soon it will be all over. Trust me, i've been there, i know what you are feeling, but they will be gone sooner than later.

 

It'll pass. You haven't been transformed in your mind that's why. Try to throw your face away from such unexpected porn, whether real life or online. It's hard, but it's the only way. Eventually you'll realize you don't even notice women's sensitive parts anymore. It's just the beginning of your recovery. Trust me at the end, youll be d one minding your business, and the women will be noticing you anyhow.

 

first time i did nofap i went crazy at certain points. each time I felt crazy i opened my journal and wrote the same thing... "be with the craziness, it will pass".

 

well to cross 1000 days I had to leave all the social media behind . and also movies . other than that I live in pakistan which is hardccore muslim so no half naked girls.
well I eliminated all sexual triggers

 

Do you have a success story brother? 1000 days is incredible.

 

yeah I am on day 1017 .
I was a chronic fapper
it destroyed my academic life and my everything and I am still recovering I just didnt know what was causing all the problem
I still am recovering .
PMO is a poison my brothers
please stay away
it kills your motivation to survive .
I was becoming a useless shit and the thing about PMO is that you just dont care . even if you are fading away .

 

Make a post in success stories about your 1017 days. You can help a lot of people bro.

 

solid bro. i wonder, is it sustainable to never look at anything that may trigger? like dont you want to build the self control (internal) than never see anything of partial nudity (external)?

 

I have made many posts before like when I crossed 365 days and then 730 days .
I would make another long post when I get the time Inshallah

 

well not looking is self control . looking and not getting aroused ? well thats a medical condition then . and I also get mental sexual triggers and very strong . I control them . so I guess I practice self control somehow . and we are humans we are bound to get aroused by nudity and I wont play with the fire .

 

i have always read that if you practice total abstinence for long enough you simply lose interest in the stuff.

 

more like you lose interest in the instant sexual gratification and you can wait for a more "good for you" partner to marry and bond and procreate which is how humans evolved

 

If you want to start nofap not only quit PMO also don't look at their ass
It's okay to look them in the eye, train yourself not to look, it'll be easy, but if you keep looking at them, it'll be worse

 

The first 4 weeks I felt like I was going to explode but now over week 5 I'm apparently in the flatline. Trust me it's a complete 180 from where you are now lol

 

I thought I was the only one who was going through the same thing, I've been going through 30 days and I think I'm going crazy, desire drives me crazy!

 

Masturbaition and porn is driving me crazy.