Dating with a fetish or porn induced?

God has nothing to do with it. Many of us actually like anal sex, but once you know it’s harmful, if you aren’t an addict you choose to no longer engage in something that hurts your body. Ask your doctor. It’s very harmful and you will pay when you’re older.

 

Good luck on your NoFap journey ok!

 

Hey not sure if you trust WebMD but I did find this

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• Even though serious injury from anal sex is not common, it can happen. Bleeding after could be due to a hemorrhoid or tear, or something more serious such as a perforation (hole) in the colon. This is a dangerous problem that needs medical attention right away. Treatment involves a hospital stay, surgery, and antibiotics to prevent infection. "

So there are some risks. I think it's important to have all the information we can get. The link is here

https://www.webmd.com/sex/anal-sex-health-concerns

 

Of course.

STD's are only a threat if the other person has one. If you know them and they are clean from STDs it should be fine. But you also won't get STD from a strapon so that's one thing to not worry about.

Pregnancy is only a risk if you don't want a baby. If you do then it's a reward.

The honest truth is you'll probably be fine from this. But I just think there is a higher chance of injury from this then vaginal sex and I felt that since that was conversation I feel like we need all the facts on the table.

But at the end of the day this thread from what I can tell isn't about if strapon sex is good or bad. It's about the fact that you feel you have a problematic relationship with it. Honestly I think you just need a break. Go 3 months without sex or pork of anytime to reboot. I'm doing the same thing (at least I'm trying).

 

Understandable. Millions of people a year die from smoking and drugs. Few if any die from a strapon.

 

The anus is not made for intercourse (unlike the vagina, the anus sphincter and other muscles of the bottom are made to stay TIGHT according to Mother Nature. The primary purpose of the muscles in the anus are to hold IN our bowel movements), so anal penetration is indeed like smoking because the lungs can take inhaling smoke but they weren’t made for that and it’s harmful to the body! It’s your life to live though!

I just think it should be known that despite modern times, anal sex, just like smoking is not what our bodies are designed for. The anus is not really a sexual organ. It’s not technically made for a dildo or penetration, so in the long run, just like with smoking, you are doing something not natural to the body!

but live your life! Many people around the world are smoking, taking all sort of drugs, injecting themselves with drugs and living and like their lives and they’re alive!

you also mentioned you frequent many prostitutes and all of this you defend! So it appears you just wanted to perhaps share your lifestyle? You don’t want to change and see nothing wrong with how you live, and that’s fine. It feels like you’re trolling though to be honest!

 

anal cancer, infections and older men having bowel incontinence issues is very real, so you’re wrong! I have family members that work in the hospital so I know the truth about how it affects men who penetrate their anuses over the long term! My aunt is a nurse and had old male patients, who because of repeated anal penetration over the years are sickly and they have issues, 1 being they cannot hold in their bowel movements.

In other words, the anus is not made for a object to be inserted deep inside of it for ‘stimulation’

 

If this is true, then yea he should really stop. I looked for sources for this but couldn't find. If you can it would be great because it could easily end this discussion.

I'm not saying you're wrong either. It doesn't seem to make sense to put an object into the butt. I just couldn't find reliable sources to back that claim. And without it the conversation becomes "I think this" vs "I think that".

The most I could find was that WebMD thing which cautioned the risks of anal sex but didn't go as far as what you are saying. So if you could post a source that would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

 

It’s not up to me what you and him should or shouldn’t stop. People can do whatever they please. I was just sharing information because it feels like some want to promote things and the truth needs to be out there.

 

1. Urine is sterile. Bacterial content is from the outermost range of the urethra.

2. Anal sex does present a wide range of issues.

• As mentioned, the tissue is much thinner, with the primary function of it being water absorption.
• Introduction of foreign objects can alter your gut flora, which can affect your health in a large number of ways aside from just digestive health. Introduction of sanitizing solutions and etc are also possibly worse, because instead of just introducing new bacteria you are also stripping away your own.
  
• Yes, both sex’s urethra and female’s vaginal bacteria content will be altered via sexual activity, but these populations are not associated with digestion and are not as pivotal in systematic health and integrity as gut flora are.

I’m not an encyclopedia, and it’s 2021. You can search for yourself articles for the veracity regarding the importance of gut bacteria. They are important enough that their absence during neonatal development results in the gastrointestinal tract not fully maturing. Yes, food ingestion has effects, but much of the incoming bacteria are drastically reduced in number by stomach acid, then the following high basicity of bile in the small intestine. Then they have to try to compete with your gut bacteria whose niche is you.

 

You've stated some version of this point that the anus is not made for sex over and over as though this somehow proves your point.

But mouths are not made for sex so, I assume you are against fellatio and never engage in it. And of course this includes oral stimulation of your clitoris. So I assume you are against this.

And, similarly, fingers are not made for sex, so any sort of digital stimulation in sex is also taboo?

What about nipples? Breasts aren't there for sex either, so I guess you must tell your partner not to touch you there.

And kissing! Clearly our mouths are not made of that!

Of course, I'm being facetious, just to make the point the this sort of reductive argument doesn't really makes sense. This isn't made for that so you ought not to do it, just doesn't hold up as an argument.

In my view, the entire human body can be a sexual organ.

As you say, "You are always free to do as you wish!" But also, one should be free not to be shamed by moralistic strictures masquerading as health advice.

 

The whole body is not a sexual organ. the ears, nose and other places like the anus are NOT made for the insertion or pumping of anything.

Please read up on parasites caused by going up inside an anus and especially putting a mouth inside of one.

Shigella germs are present in the feces (poop) of people with shigellosis while they have diarrhea and up to a few weeks after the diarrhea has gone away. Shigella is very contagious; exposure to even a tiny amount of fecal matter (poop) with Shigella in it can cause infection. Symptoms usually start 1-2 days after exposure.

Transmission of Shigella infection occurs in the following ways:

• Person-to-person contact. Shigella passes from stools or soiled fingers of one person to the mouth of another person, which can happen during sexual activity. Oral-anal sex, or sucking or licking of the anus (anilingus or “rimming”), may be especially risky.

• MSM are more likely to acquire shigellosis than the general adult population 1.
• Many shigellosis outbreaks among MSM have been reported in the United States, Australia, Canada, Japan, and Europe since 1999 2-7, 10-12.
• MSM are more likely than others to get infected with Shigella that is resistant to antibiotics commonly used to treat adults who have shigellosis 4-6, 8, 10-12. Therefore, MSM who get shigellosis may need to see their healthcare providers repeatedly before receiving treatments that will work. Additionally, they may require injectable antibiotics rather than antibiotics that can be taken by mouth.

 

Dangers of anal sex and anal-oral: More on Parasites and why the anus is not a sex organ. The anus is not a sex organ. Many people get sick each year but are not talking about it openly.

People at Risk
Anyone can become infected with Giardia. However, those at greatest risk are:

• People who have contact with poop during sexual activity

 

Here is more on some women's experiences and men's with Anal sex!

https://www.quora.com/Im-too-embarr...uite-a-bit-of-bleeding-What-options-do-I-have