Using dating apps to hookup (not for a relationship)

I think if your intention is a one night stand your probably better not mentioning that on the dating site. I would say this would likely cause the majority of women on a dating site to stop messaging you if you mentioned a one night stand, sex etc. Not always, but I think this would likely cause most women to stop messaging someone on a dating site if they messaged that stuff.

I would say guys who are on a dating site for a one night stand would have better luck just chatting to women on the dating site, and possibly meeting up with a woman from the dating site if they can, but don't send messages about a one night stand or sex, and then just see what happens when you meet the woman.

I honestly think guys who want a one night stand through a dating site would have better success doing that, than messaging women on a dating site about a one night stand, sex etc.

 

months ago back in january and february i thought i'd give dating apps like bumble POF tinder a try to see whats out there and im sad to say i had to give up on using them since girls would always block me which was a total blow to my self esteem hey man im not good with women either i feel like women have way too high standards for guys yet its ironic because girls always say that about us ! you just cant win i guess lol
i started going to the gym in the summer to meet girls. i know how hard it can be to meet girls during covid but you should try to put yourself out there. go to venues, go to the gym, look for side gigs maybe at a bar if you can to meet girls ?
best way to put yourself out there just gotta be yourself and not act fake around girls im always nervous around girls

 

good advice skaterdrew ! but isnt that what tinder is for lol ? i think tinder is mostly for hookups so maybe its his best bet to use tinder if he wants something casual and nothing serious like commitment or a relationship ?
what you said above is what happened to me, i made the big mistake of bringing up hookups to girls and they would always block me.

 

thats understandable ik what you mean it can be hard to put yourself out there if your shy/introverted ik i am too lol

 

One night stands is basically masturbation with another person. It's kind of sad.

That being said, you need to have an eye for it. With experience you'll know what girls are up to it.

But you never say one night stands, when the sex subject comes into the conversation her reaction will tell you if she is up for it.

 

why is it sad ?

 

No, because sex with a couple it involves feelings, perhaps friendship, knowing the person, love.

In a hook up m, one night stand you are just trying to get each other off. Trying to calm your lust, simply a physical thing, it doesn't involve emotions. And it's a one night thing there is not room for all this other things to grow.

 

Because you are being used and you are using the other person, you are just a piece of meat.

Maybe when you are just starting to do it it can be fun. But after a while you start to feel empty. It's like living 3d porn fantasy being with any girls.

 

Delete tinder and don't hook up would be my advice, it's immoral, carries alot of problems and ends up making you feel empty in the end.