50 days, no P, 21 days no MO

Say nothing and move on. Fix you problems first. Believe me, you dont want to get into a relationhip still addicted to P.

 

You should prioritize 90 days (at least) reboot. You can tell her and see how it goes, you can benefit from some real life support from a girl or if not you (or she) break it off, so you lose nothing telling her.

Just be cautious about being horny and having 'blue balls' if you continue going out with her not being able to have sex (and you should abstain aka 'hard mode reboot'). Again if it is not the case, she listens and supports your reboot, asking and trying to help you then you can benefit from it.

 

You might tell her if you are very close. If you are just talking on phone etc. I might wait until you have seen each other and gotten to know each other well, telling too soon might be a mistake but so is not telling. Your call on when you think it is the right time. Certainly if it does not function in bed you should but you could also not tell her if you can be without pmo.

 

Women can wait for sex, as you know. We don't need it so soon as men do. We want a relationship first. Can you not heal yourself of your PIED in the meantime while you become friends with her and form a relationship?

 

A non-trained man can NOT do this... The sex urge for men is 100x stronger than womens, especially when you are forming a bond with someone. The guy will go crazy. For men, the act of sex and physical affection is a big part of developing a deep emotional bond.

Do you know what it feels like to wake up next to a girl feeling extremely horny (like an enormous pressure and craving + boner)? Like irresistably horny? Your advice will only lead to an huge amount of frustration on his part.

He needs to get rid of his problem FIRST. Then pursue relationship.

 

Hang out with her and go for the hookup if you like her. If you are not into her, then don’t do it.