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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by PleaseHelpMeIAmSad, Sep 4, 2021.

  1. PleaseHelpMeIAmSad

    PleaseHelpMeIAmSad Fapstronaut

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    I am about to start watching Game of thrones, but a lot of people said that it contains a lot of porn and stuff like that, can I watch it? Cuz I really want to.
     
  2. There is nudity in game of thrones but treat it like you would any other nude scene in a TV programme or film. It's not harmful to see nude scenes, it's how you deal with them afterwards if you find them triggering. You might be fine, you might feel a few urges afterwards. If they do feel triggering, maybe consider taking a break from all internet connections for a few hours or going for a walk till the urges go. We can't ever avoid all sexual content or potentially triggering material. It might be handy to see it as a test of your willpower and your skill at resisting urges.
     
  3. Negan©

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    You will come across nudity, sexual stuff and temptation everywhere, how much are you going to abstain from.. Wont you go to college just because all the grown ups there indulge in sexual activities..you have to keep firm command on ur own self.. Thats the only way
     
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  4. Pablo Pasta

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    Thats the point of being stronger is to resist urges even if you see stuff that might "trigger".
    You cant "block" any type of nudity or sex apeal from your life in the fear of not relapsing, you cant live like that.
    Besides what are you gonna do if someone hot as f is walking down the street with showing alot of skin?
    Part of growing is getting over stuff that we fear, even so -a lost battle isnt a lost war-
     
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  5. Quezatolah

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    For that I have a rule where I'm not allowed to look at women intentionally, if I see a woman I'm going to calmly look elsewhere and if I have to talk to a woman I'll look at her face, not her body.
     
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  6. Pablo Pasta

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    I'd advice not really going that way, from my experience women do like a guy to look at them (including the rest of their body because its part of them) the whole point is not doing in a very creepy way , there is a difference between "silent gazing " upon someone and just drooling like a creep.
    Think of like James Bond and Quagmire(from familly guy)
    Besides nothing turns a girl off when a guy is pretending he isnt attracted when you are and it tells her you are a coward for not being honest about your intent.
    Women in general pick up things better than men ,so what you feel you send those "vibes" regarless if you want or not.
    I hope I helped a little
     
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  7. Quezatolah

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    I don't give a shit what they want, I do it so I don't get triggered, it's the same reason I cut out social media.
     
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  8. Meshuga

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    I wouldn't. Not right now.

    All these guys saying "You can't live your life avoiding all that" are correct, in the sense that you can't control what other people do. However, if you don't want to get bit by a crocodile, stay out of the bayou and if you don't want to reset, stay away from triggers. No, you can't avoid all the triggers, but you can avoid some of them. Go easy on yourself. Don't intentionally put yourself in a compromising situation, then come whining about how quitting P is so haaaarrrrdd, and your life is miserable, and it's all their fault.
    If you get through it all and grow confident you've been rebooted, watch it then. Or read the books. Books are better anyway, and you have more control over the parts you skim.

    From my perspective, it's either watch GoT or fix your P problem. You choose.
     
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  9. PleaseHelpMeIAmSad

    PleaseHelpMeIAmSad Fapstronaut

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    You got a point
    But you reset if you See or do something (PMO) intentionally
    I am not the type of guys that would go fap after getting turned on, and I can resist.
    I find the idea of getting addicted to something , weird and it doesn't make any sense, how could such a thing control me.
    I'll try watching GoT maybe ill stop if I keep getting a lot of urges , I guess , I'll not look at anything at all, or at least intentionally.
     
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  10. Meshuga

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    Fair enough. Make an informed decision and proceed without complaint. Can't ask any more from a person.
     
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  11. There's a lot more gore and psychopathy than nudity. GoT hasn't been nominated for any morality awards that I'm aware of. That said, watch it, and if you feel you're getting triggered, stop watching it.
     
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  12. PleaseHelpMeIAmSad

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    That perfect!
    I am so into psychology and anything related to it.
     

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