1095 days, now I quit

That's the only thing that causes wet dreams? How can you sleep with stress and anxiety? In order to fall asleep one has to relinquish stress and anxiety.

 

You can sleep if it's not high enough to keep you awake, also that's not the only thing, any emotion that brings you out of a neutral state can cause this. Lack of emotional balance is the cause of wet dreams.

 

I definitely wouldn't rank that as the number one cause of wet dreams. A contributor, yes. Having to urinate badly while sleeping is far more of a trigger for wet dreams than that. Though, I have also had wet dreams despite waking up to urinate excessively, so its not the only cause either. In terms of sleep, its my understanding that if one is sleep deprived and goes to sleep exhausted, then wet dreams can happen, as your normal guard against them seems to vanquish. Wet dreams can also mostly definitely be the result of a demonic attack.

 

Oh definitely, in my latest wet dream although I was able to control myself, around the end the woman's eyes were looking right at me with eyes wide and seemed very hostile, looked like a manga drawing tbh. Anyway, I'm not worried about wet dreams.

 

I was saved by an angel of some sort during one near wet-dream. It was highly sexual and right about when i felt i was gonna release, I suddenly felt this presence and image of light, and it stopped. The dream even continued on for a little longer before i woke up. Many years ago i was also raped by a demon during sleep paralysis. So, I really have no doubt in my mind that they can be demonic attacks. That was well before I was spiritual in anyway too.

 

Just don't live with fear, they feed on that and keep improving yourself.

 

It's hard to tell how many because I didn't count them. But first wet dream happened after 13 months - I was dreaming about browsing web, watched light P in my dream. It felt like I was half awake but still couldn't think properly and after ejaculating I came to my senses and woke up and realized what happened. Damage was that almost of pmo. That week I read one chapter In Bible a lot so that almost memorized it(for Bible studies), but that first wet dream was more a result of previous pmo life and pressure from bed or duvet.

Preventing them with cold showers and trying to go to sleep early and wake up early, without sleeping in a lot. Before I was telling myself before sleep firmly - I will not see sexual dreams! Also at one point was praying God before sleep to guard me and my property during the night. So yeah - consistency, since it is easy to do those little things and easy not to do. But mostly cold showers and never drinking coffee and trying not to eat sweets and soft drinks. Reading Bible and praying more or less almost every day.

 

You went 13 months without any wet dream?! That’s crazy man. I don’t know if you’re lucky or your work paid off. Maybe God granted you protection. I pray before bed too for protection.. because there are definitely dark forces that want to steal our valuable sexual energy. What time do you go to bed and wake up?

 

Well man, you are 26, at your age I did 2-3 months without wet dreams. But was not Christian.
I go to sleep like at 10-11 PM, waking a 5:40-6 AM but sometimes fell asleep even at 4-6 pm, and then wake up At midnight or 2-4 am, start to read and usually don't go to sleep again. During summer had a lot of super early moornings.

 

Masturbation if you keep it up for long enough will eventually lead you back to porn, I know you think you're in control but it's a slippery slope and you'll only see it once it's too late.

With that said, do what you think is best, I wish you freedom, your post is a great inspiration, I'm going to reach 1000 days myself one day.

 

Jesus blessed you with this freedom.
God be adored.

 

Congratulations on such a streak.
If I may I'd like to follow this thread.

 

Have you seen animals, they don't give a fuck about sexual energy, sensitivity, blah, blah, blah. They will do whatever they like and when its time for sex they will do it and forget the rest. We humans will be overthinking like shit every time. So stop that, stop giving a fuck about all this things you are 1095 days away from your addiction. So grab a beer and enjoy this fucking life mate.

 

Thank our third layer of brains for all that overthinking, the thing that gets us into this mess is what gets us out of it.

 

How was your PE condition before? and how long it took you to recover from it?

 

I'd love to know too, because I suffer of PE as well unfortunately... ED also... so I'm not in a sexually healthy state which is a daunting thought and I'm trying to cure it. At this stage all I do is practice no PMO. Is it not enough to cure the situation or does it need more time? Are there underlying things that prevents my healing process from happening? Just wondering.

 

Props to you bro! Sounds like you've been on a bit of an adventure! 1095 days - that's some streak! Totally get what you're saying about behaviours that go along with it and they can definitely be dangerous. I'm taking the same approach and I suspect that I will keep it that way for some time. It's crazy how drained and depressed one nut can make you feel! I'd rather just not do it for 3-6 months and see how it goes then. I'd also like to know that if I do it, that I can do it with out thinking about some twisted voyeur fantasy that I conditioned myself onto with porn, and without doing in in one of the ways that I've conditioned myself onto while watching porn. There's like a whole mental ecosystem that goes along with porn that I'm trying to rid myself of haha. I'm counting days, but I'm not doing it daily. I think it is important to know that you are more than you asceticism. That's a pretty bold realisation because it's a realisation that, if handled well, will contribute 10x to your being a functioning, contributing member of society.

 

But why do people do nofap with no goal in sight? I think your next goal should be to get married (assuming you're old enough). Otherwise, you can go ahead and fap... After all, if you ever find yourself going down the rabbit hole again, you can start rebooting all over again... It's that simple.
Personally i think you should work towards marriage. I'm currently on day 35 hardmode and my goal is to get my life in order, find love and marry. I'm 36 years old, by the way, and never been married because of this horrible addiction -- Left my life in total disarray.